The most important relationship you are ever going to have is with YOURSELF.
GET TO KNOW YOURSELF
What do you like? What are you interested in? What are your selfish goals? What are some bucket list things you want to cross off before you die? What type of person do you want to be? What type of husband/wife, son/daughter, parents, friend, do you want to be? What do you want your legacy to be? What do you want people to describe you as? What’s your favorite country? What’s your favorite food? What environment do you thrive in? What is your greatest strength and greatest weakness? What are you truly passionate about? What does a successful life mean to you?
BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
Do not lie. Don’t lie about where you’re at. Don’t lie about how hard you are working. You can (but shouldn’t) lie to other people but please above anyone and anything do not lie to yourself. Be honest about how you are feeling. You will have to face it sooner or later. Instead of lying or shying away from the truth, build an honest and open relationship with yourself. Be truthful and consistent with you.
We are all different and as much as we would LIKE to be a certain way, sometimes we just aren’t. I would love to be an attention-to-detail type of person but I am not that! I am a big picture, passion, relationship type person. So instead of letting things fall through the cracks I course correct. I make an extra effort to build systems and my inner circle that help me with my weaknesses. Embrace who you are and how you operate in order to support yourself on the highest levels. Be clear about your boundaries and goals with others and yourself.
KNOW YOUR DEFINITION FOR HAPPINESS/SUCCESS/FULFILLMENT
Everyone’s end goal is different and if you don’t do this inner work you will be working towards someone else’s dream life without even knowing it. Get clear about what you want: for your family, your business and your future. Understand that everyone wants something different and when it comes to a lifestyle and a dream you have to think for yourself. What do you truly desire? Take a few hours and walk in nature. Clear your mind. Then, answer this question: if money and opportunity were no longer a problem, how would I live my life?
The longest, deepest and most important relationship we will ever have is with ourselves ❤️ Be kind to yourself and create a life in which you have the ability to thrive! I thoroughly believe in doing personality tests, if you have not already done so. Some that I would recommend ↓
5 love languages ►
Strengths Finder 2.0 ►