• Ups And Downs Of Personal Development: Why It’s Worth It

    Ups And Downs Of Personal Development: Why It’s Worth It

    Self love, authentic relationships and personal growth⁣⁣⁣These are all things that are extremely hard yet also incredibly worth it. These are the “tough times” we talk about in the personal development world⁣⁣⁣Tomorrow I will be recording a solo podcast on the ups and downs of personal development! Here are the basics ⁣⁣⁣⁣SELF LOVE⁣♦️ Self love is challenging because it forces you to look at all of the places you’re withholding love from yourself. Where you’re being too critical and too harsh. Where you’re suppressing desire and expression. Where you’re lacking commitment and discipline. I always say that self love IS self discipline. The prices of learning to love yourself comes from the process of accepting yourself and also trusting yourself (through action and practice).⁣ ✔️ Learning to love yourself is one of the greatest gifts you can ever give you’re self. When you love yourself you stick to what you say you’re going to do. You’re kind to yourself through the process (wins and failures). You give yourself the time and patience to grow and evolve. Becoming someone who practices self love means you prioritize your needs and your desires in the world… and best of all, you take action to make them happen! ⁣⁣⁣⁣AUTHENTIC RELATIONSHIPS ⁣♦️ Creating authentic relationships is hard because it forces you to look at the darkest parts of yourself: greed, shame, regret, vengeance, anger, jealousy, insecurities etc. Authentic relationships challenges you to see and accept the darkest parts of you. It challenges you to apologize, communicate and make amends with the people who suffered from your personal struggles. Then, authentic relationships make you expose your fears and vulnerabilities. The true (healthy) way to bond with others comes from open and honest relationships. Aka the opposite of trauma bonding which a lot of us are accustomed …Read More »
  • How To Find Your Beauty

    How To Find Your Beauty

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    I was out to lunch with my good friend Jess and we were talking about the importance of self love & confidence. Here’s some conclusions 👇🏽⁣⁣⁣Beauty comes from the inside.⁣⁣⁣There’s no amount of filters, fillers (I live in LA lol) or photoshop that can change how you actually FEEL about yourself. ⁣⁣⁣Confidence comes from within…⁣⁣Happiness comes from within…⁣⁣Acceptance comes from within…⁣⁣⁣⁣Beauty comes from inside. ⁣⁣An ugly personality won’t be masked by a beautiful face. They will always be ugly because what’s on the inside is what actually matters in the long run. ⁣⁣⁣At some point you realize that nothing needs to change on the outside. The only thing that truly needs to change is your mindset & the amount of love you show yourself. That’s how you finally feel beautiful, confident and comfortable in your own skin. It will never come from someone else. Repeat it with me… IT WILL NEVER COME FROM SOMEONE ELSE. It HAS to come from within!⁣⁣⁣We also discussed “beautiful features” and how⁣To celebrate them instead of envy them. In LA there’s a lot of plastic surgery and photoshop that helps people achieve a desired look. This sparked an incredible discussion between Jess and I about “beautiful features”. Instead of seeing someone’s lips, body or eyebrows and thinking “that’s beautiful I wish I had that” why can’t we just celebrate THEM for THEIR beautiful and unique qualities.⁣⁣⁣Over this past year I’ve learned so much about self love and one of the biggest lessons was to celebrate others! I realized that I can’t be all the things I wish I could be and I can’t have all of the beautiful features I wish I could have BUT I can be me and I can celebrate what I bring to the table. I can make a decision to …Read More »
  • Resolutions That Actually Work

    Resolutions That Actually Work

    I didn’t make resolutions for 2020. For a coach that’s definitely out of the ordinary. ⁣⁣⁣I did something different this year!⁣ ⁣Instead of creating resolutions, I created structures that produce the things that I desire. Things like health, wealth, alignment, love, happiness, fulfillment and connection.⁣⁣⁣I do that by being intentional and consistent with the habits and actions that make me feel good. As human beings were guided by our feelings and our self talk. This year I’m challenging you to see resolutions slightly different! 👁 ⁣⁣⁣I believe that people fuck up resolutions because of (1)feelings, (2)self talk and (3)lack of consistency.⁣⁣FEELINGS ⁣What you focus on, you create. Therefore, if your resolutions are fueled by self hatred and negativity you will never truly achieve your goals. Typically people choose to make change out of a place of pain and although that can be a motivator it’s not necessarily the best or most efficient. Creating a change out of love is the best, quickest and most efficient way for making lasting change. How have your feelings impacted your goals in the past?⁣⁣SELF TALK⁣Self talk is something we all deal with. It can work for you or it can work against you and I’m sure you’ve seen that play out in your own life. Forcing yourself to do something through inflicting feelings of guilt, shame or any other negative based feeling will leave you feeling empty, alone and unworthy. Instead of allowing negative feelings to create negative self talk which fuels the cycle, make a different choice. Like I said above, come from a place of love and other positive emotions. Then, make an effort to gauge the way you talk to yourself. What do you need to tell yourself when you’re struggling with a resolution? How can you encourage yourself to take action instead …Read More »
  • Don’t Make This Mistake In 2020

    Don’t Make This Mistake In 2020

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    2020 will go by just as fast as 2019 did and if you didn’t make progress this past year… you probably won’t make significant progress this year either.⁣⁣NOTHING CHANGES UNLESS NOTHING CHANGES ⁣⁣I’d you don’t commit to your (1) growth and (2) choosing the uncomfortable in the short term then you will be very unhappy in the long term! In order to produce results you have to take CONSISTENT action.⁣⁣⁣It’s not always the massive action that stops us. Most of the time it’s not. In reality it’s the small steps daily that we avoid or procrastinate… and that’s what kills us in the end. Your limiting beliefs and fearS are the things that are holding you back from making those small daily decisions. If you need help with that, slide into my dms. I just released a podcast on this exact topic using myself and the podcast as the example!!⁣⁣⁣A Liv Teixeira Production is the result of small steps in the right direction. Learn more from tuning into that episode!⁣⁣⁣The podcast also includes a big thank you to all of the people that came up to me at LLC over the thanksgiving break ❤️ I appreciate each and every one of you!! There’s a special thank you on this episode😌🥰Read More »
  • You Need To Remember This

    You Need To Remember This

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    I think it’s really important to realize that no one has it all together ⁣⁣Regardless of what people want to portray (in social media or in person) every single person is a HUMAN BEING at the end of the day.⁣⁣That means they…⁣Get scared⁣Get angry ⁣Get happy/unhappy ⁣Go through heartbreak ⁣Deal with loss⁣Deal with grief ⁣Deal with jealousy and insecurities⁣Have ups and have downs ⁣Have self doubt⁣Have negative self talk⁣⁣⁣ ⁣REALITYNo matter what you see on the outside… the inside is always much different. There are truths that everyone hide. 👇🏽⁣⁣I’ve talked with people who have “picture perfect” families who are extremely suicidal and depressed. ⁣⁣I’ve talked with people who have “picture perfect” relationships and it’s constant fighting and completely toxic. ⁣⁣I’ve talked with people who have the “picture perfect” career and feel absolutley suffocated and ridden with anxiety. ⁣⁣I’ve talked with people who have “picture perfect” body but have horrible body dysmorphia and hate to look in the mirror. ⁣ ⁣⁣THE POINTThe point is… at the end of the day we are all human beings. We’re navigating through the world trying to find and create happiness in the small little moments and also the big macro life events. ⁣⁣The point is… you have to make YOU happy. And true happiness comes from the alignment you have with the decisions and choices you make. ⁣⁣The point is… make an effort to build deeply connected relationships with others so you can support and love one another through the ups and downs of life. ⁣⁣The point is… it’s 100% your job to make you happy. It’s 100% your job to make sure that YOU like the life YOU live. ⁣ ⁣ Don’t compare you’re self to others… ⁣⁣Don’t compare your life to others… ⁣⁣Live your own life and do everything in your power …Read More »
  • 4 Lessons From 2019

    4 Lessons From 2019

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    My 2019 has been full of wins and losses, just like yours has. For me, the biggest win this year in my personal life has easily been my friendships. The continuous effort and support I’ve received from my friends this year has surpassed anything else I’ve ever experienced. The newfound success with building conscious, healthy and loving relationships with others has been some of my fondest memories of all of 2019. This year my friends and the people I surround myself with have really pushed me to level up in a number of ways.⁣ 1. Being honest.⁣⁣My friends have really taught me how to be more honest with myself and how I’m ACTUALLY feeling. Contrary to popular belief I’m not THAT open when it comes to my feelings (feeling scared or insecure or sad). My friends have really created a safe space that encourages me to be real with who I am and what I’m currently working through. Also, it’s encouraged me to be real with them and what’s going good/bad with our relationships.⁣⁣⁣2. Trust myself.⁣⁣They’ve pressured and encouraged me to dig deeper when I’m questioning things. To trust myself and my judgement in any and all situations. We know what to do. We know how we feel. Its more about trusting ourselves than it is looking outward for more guidance and information. ⁣⁣⁣3. Ultimate authenticity ⁣⁣My friends have really inspired me to be more me. To celebrate and encourage all sides of me and all seasons of my growth. The more you’re able to love others authentically for who they are, the more you can do it for yourself. It’s about celebrating all stages of your process.⁣⁣⁣4. Loving unconditionally. ⁣⁣This one is simple. Love yourself without judgement. Love yourself without expectation. Love yourself without thinking you should be somewhere …Read More »
  • Why You Don’t Hit Your Goals

    Why You Don’t Hit Your Goals

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    You’re not missing your goals because of time or circumstances. We’ve all had the same 365 days over the last year. What did you make of it? The reason you maybe didn’t hit goals is because you don’t have (1) clarity/focus and (2) commitment ⁣⁣⁣Before going into 2020 give yourself some serious TIME to reflect on the year. What went well? What didn’t go well? Where did I hit my mark? Where did I miss? Do this reflection so that you can piece together how you want to make 2020 different than 2019. What do you want more of? What do you want less of? What do you want to do? What do you want to accomplish? ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS!⁣⁣⁣Going into 2020 get crystal clear about what you want. Keep it simple.⁣⁣⁣ My game plan going into 2020 is to have TWO major goals that I’m working towards. Not 5 or 6 and not definitely 10. Just TWO. Having less goals doesn’t necessarily make it easier. It makes you more focused. It makes you commit fully to those two things. And instead of having 10 things you’re working towards and keeping tabs on…it’s just 2. Having two goals is very simple and it’s black and white. There’s no room for excuses…⁣⁣⁣You either did them or you didn’t.Read More »
  • Make Your Life Simple In 2020

    Make Your Life Simple In 2020

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    Sometimes life is about simplicity.⁣⁣⁣⁣As were coming to an end of a DECADE it’s important to give yourself time…⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣…Time to reflect ⁣⁣⁣⁣…Time to strategize ⁣⁣⁣⁣…Time to plan⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣And when you’re doing all three of these things it’s important to make things simple. Do not overly complicated your life or your goals. Make your life easier by simplifying things. Have focus and intention with every step you take. Over the next calendar year focus on 1-3 goals. One career goal. One personal goal. And maybe one other goal in another category. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Because when things get complicated it’s important to be grounded with simplicity. Life will happen. When things are overwhelming make sure you have one singular focus to put all of your energy into.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣🔐Focus is important⁣⁣🔐Energy is important⁣⁣🔐Intention is important⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣As you wind down from 2019 and plan for 2020 make sure you’re making things easier on yourself. Give yourself the gift of focus and write down what it is you TRULY want from all areas of your life. Then map out the things you have to do to get there. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣And then, execute! Time is not on your side. Don’t waste it. Instead take advantage of any and all opportunities. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I’m wishing you your best year yet!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣If you’re looking for a more intentional and productive year, reach out. There is no better time to start working with me one on one than RIGHT NOW. We have just under a month and a half before the end of the year. If you want to make sure that you’re going into 2020 prepared and ready to make dreams a reality, then you’re ready. If you’re interested, message me “RESULTS” and we’ll make it happen.⁣Read More »
  • Life Hasn’t Always Been Easy For Me…

    Life Hasn’t Always Been Easy For Me…

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    Life hasn’t always been easy for me… it’s typically been the opposite. I think it’s why I’m able to connect and feel and understand so deeply. It’s my passion and my purpose. Pain has had a weird way of bringing me to some of my brightest days. It’s taught me a lot of lessons⁣⁣⁣⁣It’s all about perspective. My mom use to tell me that “It’s not what happens, it’s how you deal with it”⁣⁣⁣⁣It’s you vs you at the end of the day. Everyone has their own insecurities, fears and limiting beliefs. Everyone has their own goals, mission, aspirations and purpose. Focus on you. Stay in your lane. Become a better you today than you were yesterday. ⁣⁣⁣⁣It doesn’t matter where you came from ⁣⁣It doesn’t matter what you’ve done or said⁣⁣It doesn’t matter how many times you’ve failed ⁣⁣It doesn’t matter what you have or don’t have ⁣⁣⁣⁣In the end, what matters is the choices you make. The choices you make and the actions you take with the hand that’s dealt. That’s life⁣⁣⁣⁣Who do you want to be?⁣⁣What do you want to create?⁣⁣How do you want to be remembered?Read More »
  • 2 Ways Your LIFE GOALS Cycle Like Crops During Harvesting Season

    2 Ways Your LIFE GOALS Cycle Like Crops During Harvesting Season

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    2 ways your LIFE GOALS cycle like crops during harvesting season 🍇 ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣FIRST, Identify the season you are currently in.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣1. Are you in a planting season? ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣A planting season consists of picking & choosing which crops will be planted. Choosing which crop to plant takes some thought. The type of crop determines the amount of time & effort needed to grow and harvest that crop. Spinach can take 30-40 days, where as, things like coffee beans or grapes can take up to 4 years. For your life goals, a ‘planting season’ consists of coming up with ideas and putting things into play. Also, anticipating the time & energy requirements for different goals. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣2. Are you in a watering season? ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣A watering season consists of nurting the seeds so that they can grow & thrive. It’s a balancing act; figuring out the right amount of sunlight, water and time they need to flourish. In regards to your life goals, a ‘watering season’ is when you are taking care of business and tending to the things that need time, energy & consistency in order to grow. A key component is consistency & patience. Things like spinach are quick to sprout. Things like coffee beans and grapes take much longer. Understand that some goals are a lifelong commitment; treat them accordingly. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣3. Are you in a harvesting season? ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣A harvesting season consists of gathering and enjoying the crops! In regards to your life goals, a ‘harvesting season’ consists of finally getting paid, recognized or acknowledged for your hard work and consistency. This is where we win, where we check the box and cross it off the list! The key to your ‘harvesting season’ is making sure you don’t neglect the other seasons. A good harvesting season comes from a good thought out planting …Read More »
  • 4 Steps To Stop Caring What Other People Think: Attacking Insecurities And Self Beliefs

    4 Steps To Stop Caring What Other People Think: Attacking Insecurities And Self Beliefs

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    Caring what others think is exhausting yet we all do it in a variety of ways. In the most recent daily episode I break down the 4 steps to eradicate this habit for good!!⁣⁣ 4 ways to stop caring what people think about you: ⁣⁣⁣1. Identify which areas matter to you. What area is a place where you care what others think? Your looks, your ability, your work, you intelligence, your sense of humor? What area are you hypersensitive about? We all have one just be honest with yourself.⁣⁣⁣2. Identify who’s opinion you value most. Is it a parent or another family member? Is it a friend or someone you admire? Who’s approval matters most to you? Who’s disapproval or disappointment would hurt the most? When you’re looking for validation or recognition, who do you go to?⁣⁣⁣3. What type of person do you care about most? This is more so in the general public and when you’re meeting people for the first time. Who’s first impression matters the most? Guys? Girls? Good looking people? Cool people? Smart people? Authoritative people? Confident or dominant people? Giving or generous people? Who’s opinion do you value MOST?⁣⁣⁣4. Identify what the route cause of this insecurity is and where it comes from. Who was the first person you experienced this vulnerability, insecurity or pressure (to be something) with? What was this fear protecting you from in the future?⁣⁣⁣⁣Identify what the problem is and where it comes from. Recognize and accept that a younger (maybe less educated/aware) version of you created this story. Recognize its impact over the years. Allow yourself to validate this insecurity, comparison or negative self belief. It is real. And it probably affected you deeply at one point. But that time is over and you’re ready to release it and move …Read More »
  • 7 Lessons From James Whittaker: Preparation, Luck and Myths About Success

    7 Lessons From James Whittaker: Preparation, Luck and Myths About Success

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    “After a successful 10-year career in financial planning where he ran a company with more than $2 billion under management, James began his own entrepreneurial journey. Today, he draws on his diverse experience to help people reach their potential in all areas of their lives.” James Whittaker Website Bio This week I had the pleasure of speaking with James Whittaker. James is a speaker, Author, coach and lifelong entrepreneur. He had a long 10 year career in financial planning before getting invited to contribute to the Think And Grow Rich conglomerate. James is also the host of the Win The Day podcast where he breaks down most successful people in their respected industry. People like Rob Ddyrdek and Barbara Corcoran. During the interview we discussed and talked at length on a variety of topics. Here, I condensed them into 7 main themes and lessons. IT’S IMPORTANT TO BECOME RICH We discussed Think And Grow Rich and also the Law Of Attraction. Sometimes people get too caught up in the idea that money is the ultimate goal with both ideologies. The real goal is to be rich. Rich in relationshipsRich in time Rich in freedomnRich in abundanceAnd of course rich in experiences Becoming rich in any and all of these areas requires you to unlock your potential. The key to unlocking your potential is also where most people are lacking: in a sense of practicality. Napoleon Hill stresses the importance of action. ACTION is what produces results. Action is the key to unlocking your true potential. It requires consistency and trial and error. When Jim Carrey says that money won’t make you happy; it’s the truth. Progress is power and that is what brings about genuine and sustainable happiness. PRIORITIZE GRATITUDEDuring the interview James states that being rich in gratitude is …Read More »
  • How To Live A Healthy And Happy Life

    How To Live A Healthy And Happy Life

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    ⁣⁣⁣Today’s podcast discussed the 3 major factors that not only increase your health but also how happy and truly fulfilled you are!! ⁣⁣⁣ Link To Podcast Apple ► Spotify ► Podbean ► The first one is laughing.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣How many belly laughs do you have in a day? How light hearted is your mood? Are you able to joke and laugh frequently?⁣⁣⁣How often are you smiling?⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣The second is lowering and minimizing stress.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣It’s important to be carefree and light and not be bogged down constantly by chronic stress. Chronic stress manifests as chronic disease both physically and mentally in the body. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣The third and last, yet arguably most important is meaningful connection.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣It’s important to have deep, meaningful conversations and relationships with others. It’s important to be heard and felt and seen and to also return the favor and be there to support others. We thrive as a tribe and it’s important to keep these times and experiences as frequent as possible⁣⁣⁣.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Any and all of these three things can absolutely change the trajectory of your mood. They can change your days and your life if you let them. I know we talk a lot about different strategies to achieving a life of fulfillment… this is where you start!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ Listen to A Liv Teixeira Production on any major podcast platform ⁣⁣⁣ Apple ►… Spotify ►… Podbean ► https://livteixeira.podbean.comRead More »
  • How To Improve Your Relationship With You

    How To Improve Your Relationship With You

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    The most important relationship you are ever going to have is with YOURSELF.⁣⁣ ⁣GET TO KNOW YOURSELF⁣⁣What do you like? What are you interested in? What are your selfish goals? What are some bucket list things you want to cross off before you die? What type of person do you want to be? What type of husband/wife, son/daughter, parents, friend, do you want to be? What do you want your legacy to be? What do you want people to describe you as? What’s your favorite country? What’s your favorite food? What environment do you thrive in? What is your greatest strength and greatest weakness? What are you truly passionate about? What does a successful life mean to you?⁣⁣BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF⁣⁣Do not lie. Don’t lie about where you’re at. Don’t lie about how hard you are working. You can (but shouldn’t) lie to other people but please above anyone and anything do not lie to yourself. Be honest about how you are feeling. You will have to face it sooner or later. Instead of lying or shying away from the truth, build an honest and open relationship with yourself. Be truthful and consistent with you. ⁣⁣SELF-AWARE-BASED SUPPORT ⁣⁣We are all different and as much as we would LIKE to be a certain way, sometimes we just aren’t. I would love to be an attention-to-detail type of person but I am not that! I am a big picture, passion, relationship type person. So instead of letting things fall through the cracks I course correct. I make an extra effort to build systems and my inner circle that help me with my weaknesses. Embrace who you are and how you operate in order to support yourself on the highest levels. Be clear about your boundaries and goals with others and yourself.⁣⁣KNOW YOUR …Read More »
  • We Are The Problem…

    We Are The Problem…

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    Most of us don’t actually want to be happy. Aka were causing our OWN FUCKING PROBLEMS. Life is easy. Business is simple. Relationships aren’t complicated. ⁣⁣So where are we getting lost in translation?⁣⁣⁣⁣Well, life is about love. Both giving and receiving love is what keeps us going. In a sense, it’s one of our truest purpose in life. If you’re lacking this it’s because you are AVOIDING, PUSHING AWAY OR SABOTAGING love that is currently in your life.⁣⁣⁣⁣Hear me out, open your mind and think with me on this one…⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣  ► We don’t effectively communicate our needs and feelings to a partner ….. and the relationship suffers⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ► We don’t participate in consistent action (daily) ….. and our business/work/career suffers ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ► We don’t solidify our boundaries ….. and ALL relationships (friends, family, significant others) SUFFER⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣So, here I am, reminding you of this crucial information. NOTHING CHANGES IF NOTHING CHANGES. You have 100% control of your life and if something isn’t going the way you want you have the power to make change. Different choices yield different outcomes.⁣⁣ It’s really not that complicated. ⁣If you’re reading and thinking hmmm I’m not where I want to be and I cant quite pinpoint why. I have the answer!! Focus on the following 5 things and your entire life will change forever:⁣ Boundaries ⁣⁣ Self awareness ⁣⁣ Trauma hacking ⁣⁣ Pattern recognition ⁣⁣ Emotional intelligence ⁣⁣Read More »
  • A Lesson On Happiness (from Bryan Callen)

    A Lesson On Happiness (from Bryan Callen)

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    ”You find those allies, the people that know you the best in life, the ones who crack you up through the ups and downs. My guess is that’s the first and last thing we remember when we die.” ⁣ That was a piece of @bryancallen last IG post and it inspired this blog post ⁣ Let get real. What actually matters in life? I see all of these people promoting and grinding for success and success ONLY. What are you trying so hard to achieve that’s “going to change everything”?? If you make it to the very top and you make all of the money and receive all of the recognition, then what? Who are you doing to celebrate with? ⁣⁣⁣If a tree falls down in the middle of a forest, would you hear it? If you succeed and no one is there to watch, did you truly succeed? If you succeed and you had NO fun throughout the entire process, was it worth it? ⁣⁣⁣At the end of the day the things that matter cannot be bought. Its laughing with your buddies, driving with the windows down singing along to your favorite song, and making fun of each other while going through life. Like I said on my last podcast episode…if you cant have fun jamming out to rap music in your GRANDPARENTS MINIVAN, you’re not going to do it when you’re cruising in a Lambo…. Essentially, if this is you, you’re fucked.⁣⁣How happy you are now IS how happy you will be when you achieve all that you are longing to achieve. ⁣Read that again.⁣ Don’t waste today’s happiness in pursuits that tomorrows will be more rewarding. ⁣Make you’re energy and your happiness a priority right now 🙏🏽🔑Read More »
  • 3 Actionable Items For Success

    3 Actionable Items For Success

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    Reminder:⁣⁣⁣It’s not going to be easy⁣It’s not going to happen quick⁣⁣⁣But when it happens, it’s going to be worth it⁣ Today I spoke at an event on success and how to truly achieve it⁣. We discussed the nitty gritty details on how to achieve fulfillment in whatever you’re doing. We discussed the steps and tangible actions that will get you there. The three actionable items to achieving success are Having A Clear Goal Repetition Alignment Having A Clear Goal It is important that you are crystal clear on your goal and where you are headed. This requires some inner work and some focus. First, you have to figure out what it is that you truly deeply want then you have to get clear on the physical ask. What are you asking for? What are you working towards. This includes numbers, dates, and other tangible information. Focus is powerful. This is where focus is required for real success. Repetition Self discipline requires self love. In order to make this dream a reality you have to do the work. And you have to do the work consistently. It won’t happen over night and it won’t happen if you’re not consistent. Goals and dreams require commitment. How committed are you to achieving and accomplishing your goal? Are you working at it every day? You should be. Focus + Consistency = Power Alignment ⁣⁣Alignment is the last piece of the puzzle and what really makes all of this work like a well oiled machine. You have to align yourself with what it is that you want. We create alignment by imaging, dreaming and even just thinking about what it is you’re working towards and how it will feel once you get there. The feeling is the key component here. It is important to play …Read More »
  • PSA For Fake Social Media B.S.

    PSA For Fake Social Media B.S.

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    We live in a world where being fake gets rewarded. It’s sad to watch and even worse to see people actually believing it. I’m here to tell you the brutal and honest truth. ⁣Driving fast expensive cars, hooking up with hot chicks or successful dudes, photoshopping yourself into an unrecognizable version of you (come on we see the mismatching backgrounds and photoshop errors) and of course, making a bunch of money, seems to be some (of the many) themes I’ve seen since I’ve moved to LA. I fucking love LA. There is so much opportunity here it’s insane! And to be honest I really love the people. Most of the people I meet have pretty good intentions, goals and overall good heads on their shoulders. However, I also realize that there is a lot of insecurity and not specifically in LA but more so in the social media world. A lot of fronting and acting like you have something that you don’t. ⁣⁣⁣I’m not knocking it! A personal brand that hits all the weak spots, insecurities and wildest dreams of the consumer… is great marketing. Actually, it’s excellent! And if it’s solely for marketing purposes, I support it. ⁣We’re all running a business at the end of the day.⁣However, most of the time it’s not for marketing or strategy. It’s for personal validation. The cars and the money and the girls and photoshopped/FaceTuned bodies are often NOT for the marketing. And THAT is the problem. It’s a way to manage insecurities and to portray an untrue image on social media in order to get that said validation. ⁣If you are doing this… please stop. And if you are seeing it, consuming it and even worse, believing it…realize that it’s not actually real. Stop comparing yourself to this unrealistic way of …Read More »
  • How To Interview Highly Successful People

    How To Interview Highly Successful People

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    I recently did a podcast where I discussed how I got Grant Cardone on my podcast. He is a Real Estate, Sales and Finance mogul. He is also a busy, very busy, man. Therefore, getting this interview was a catch! Which is exactly why I am going to break down how I got him to come on my podcast A Liv Teixeira Production. 1. To Be Honest It Was LUCK If luck were when… Preparation meets opportunity. People are so quick to make excuses as to why they can’t accomplish the same feats that others accomplish when in reality everyone has the same ability to succeed. There was no difference between me and anyone else who had a podcast in LA since he openly advertised on his social media that he was looking to collaborate with other popular podcasts. 2. I ASKED FOR IT! I had the courage and the belief in myself to ask for the interview. There are a million reasons why I could have shied away from asking wether they be self doubt, negative self talk or just lack of confidence in my ability and show. ALL OF THOSE WERE AN OPTION. It would have been easy for me to make that excuse and say that I wasn’t qualified for it. But this is what separates the successful from the not-so-successful ➝ are you willing to bet on yourself? I was willing to bet on myself. A friend sent me his request and I immediately emailed his people to schedule the interview. I was persistent and I followed up and a week later there I was interviewing Grant Cardone on finance, goals and thinking big (in his world 10X). In life you have to be willing to ask for the things you want; even if it’s scary. …Read More »
  • Mom ❤️

    Mom ❤️

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    Days become weeks and the weeks become months and the months quickly turn into years ⁣⁣4 years ago I lost a very special person ❤️ Someone who truly loved unconditionally and gave everything she had to being a mom. I appreciate her sacrifice and dedication to her kids. The mission and plan never wavered regardless of the challenges we/she faced. ⁣⁣⁣She didn’t get to see me graduate and she will never get to see me getting married or having kids. On the flip side I’ll never be able to fund her retirement or buy her a home or any of the other things I hoped and dreamed to do 💔 And that’s that! That’s the painful but honest truth. Sometimes it’s tough to find the silver lining (just being real) but in this case I truly believe that there was a reason. There was a reason she endured years of pain. I choose to believe that her sacrifices and her absence has made me the person I am today… a better person and a person that is going to change so many lives ❤️ I learned so countless lessons in such a short time of having my mom and I am eternally grateful for those. ⁣⁣I have my mom to thank for a lot of things and I won’t list them here but regardless I’m grateful for them 🙏🏽 I don’t believe I had a conventional upbringing but then again who the fuck has?! I just want to shine light on these not so light topics to show people that ⬇️⁣⁣✨🔥It’s not about where you come from it’s about where you’re going and what you make of yourself 🙌🏽⁣⁣⁣Life isn’t always easy and life is definitely not fair. We all get dealt a hand of cards and it’s our job …Read More »
  • Fuck Your Excuses, It’s no harder for you

    Fuck Your Excuses, It’s no harder for you

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    Everything is happening FOR you, not TO you. Inevitably we all have trauma. We have all experienced pain. We have all been screwed over by people in our lives that we cared about deeply. We are human and all of this is part of the human experience. However we are not helpless. We do not need saving or codling. We have the power to heal from past trauma. We have the ability to grow from trials and tribulations. And if we CHOOSE, we can turn our PAIN into POWER. ⁣⁣Nobody got great by accident or by chance. No one created their dream life with ease and effortless grace. It takes work. It takes a constant dedication and commitment to mastering the mind. Your mindset is what determines your future: the happiness in your relationships & the fulfillment in your work⁣ ⁣⁣As the great philosopher @champagnepapi said ⁣⁣⁣“This some shit I wrote about when I was broke!⁣⁣……. See, the power of the mind is not a joke”⁣⁣⁣⁣Here’s some scenarios for ya where healing can change the meaning of tough times ⬇️⁣⁣Fucked up parenting ⁣– pushes you to learn how to reparent yourself ⁣– teaches you how to love yourself regardless of the love given or received from others⁣– teaches you how to create healthy boundaries because they’ve been walked over in the past ⁣⁣A toxic or abusive romantic relationship ⁣– teaches you what you do and don’t want⁣– teaches you how you want to be treated ⁣– teaches you how to identify warning signs ⁣– teaches you your non negotiable moving forward ⁣– teaches you how to create healthy boundaries that make you comfortable and happy ⁣⁣Poverty ⁣– teaches you resourcefulness ⁣– teaches you drive and desire for better ⁣– teaches you humility ⁣⁣The world will harden you if you let it… accept …Read More »
  • I hope you find this…

    I hope you find this…

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    I want everyone to find true happiness ✨⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣➖Find a partner that sets your soul on fire⁣⁣⁣➖Create a career that fuels your passion daily⁣⁣⁣➖Build an empire that you are not just proud of but honored to be a part of⁣⁣⁣➖Leave a legacy ⁣⁣⁣➖Become the very best version of you, for you, by you, because of you ❤️⁣⁣⁣➖Give give give⁣ and give some more⁣⁣➖Become grateful of anything and everything, with every part of your soul⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Give love. Receive love. Be better today than you were yesterday⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣If you haven’t heard it yet…⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣…You’re worth it⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣…Yes! You can and you should!!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣…It is possible ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣…You deserve it ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Now go make it happenRead More »
  • The Success Formula

    The Success Formula

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    Trauma The first step to working through any tame is to firstly acknowledge it. Trauma is so multi dimensional and I’ll let you in on a little secret… we all have it. Yup. Every single one of us! Trauma can be linked to insecurities, toxic relationships, weakness, trials/tribulations and anything that would contribute to a troublesome upbringing. Trauma often comes from our childhood and lays dormant in our bodies, minds and souls. It is an important to work through traumas and process them especially in adulthood. Doing this aids our ability to overcome adversity and to tackle challenges. It is also one of the key pieces to truing unlocking your full potential. Acceptance The second step to working through traumas is acceptance. In order to heal and later prosper you must accept the circumstances, your role and other’s roles’. This step in the process allows you to analyze your involvement and grow in future situations. It also aids in a deeper understanding of who you are and what you want. Release The third step of working through trauma is the active release of the trauma. This is best done actively instead of passively. This is where you let go of pain, frustration and anger. You acknowledge the lesson from the trauma and you let go the pain associated with it. Here you learn. Trauma release can come from a variety of modalities. Gratitude Here is the big switch from negative to positive. Here is where we find stability and homeostasis as human being. Gratitude is the key to reprograming the brain to see blessings instead of danger. This helps us take control over our lives, our circumstances and the way in which we view the world. Passion The last and final step is the ultimate key to success and fulfillment. Passion …Read More »
  • Mindset


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    The funniest thing about my life is that people think it was easy. HA I like to think I got really good because I had a lot of practice 🙌🏽 Who can relate? ⁣⁣⁣People always comment on my energy and positivity and optimism and say: “I wish I could be like that”. I find it so comical because YOU CAN… Anyone can? and you can do it in challenging situations.⁣⁣⁣You have the power to control and influence and change your state, your thoughts and your attitude at any point. You can change your life by changing just these 3 things.⁣⁣⁣At a young age I realized this and when tough times came, I reminded myself of it. Each and every one of us has the power to do this. We have the control. If you want to be happier and more carefree and truly enjoying life on the highest level YOU CAN!! Be aware of the language you use. And the questions you ask yourself. And the meaning you give different situations 🔐 Become aware of your programming so you can change it! ⁣⁣⁣YOU are the only thing that holds you back from incredible relationships, inspiring work and a life created by your own individual design! I want everyone to win. But I really want everyone to win at their own game: that takes self awareness, reflection and really figuring out what truly makes YOU happy. I hope you all make the choice and put in the effort because it’s worth it ❤️Read More »
  • Money Won’t Make You Happy

    Money Won’t Make You Happy

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    Money isn’t going to make you happy. Money is a tool that can amplify all areas of your life. Money can make things easier and more stress free. But after a certain point (studies show $70k) more money doesn’t equal more happiness ⁣⁣⁣So we do we chase it? Why do we chase money and cars and clothes and achievement? Why do we constantly think that external things will make us feel a different way? Why do we believe that we must get and achieve these things in order to be fulfilled? ⁣⁣⁣We dive deep into this concept and where it comes from in the most recent episode of A LIV TEIXEIRA PRODUCTION.⁣⁣The episode is titled WHY YOU WANT/DESIRE THE EXTERNAL THINGS, check it out on Spotify and iTunesRead More »
  • I’ll be happy when…

    I’ll be happy when…

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    I’ll be happy when… that phrase/idea will lead you absolutley no where.⁣⁣The idea that any of the below is going to make you happy is the very idea that’s going to strip you of any potential of true happiness ⁣– a car⁣– a house/apartment⁣– clothes ⁣– jewelry⁣– money ⁣⁣True happiness comes from being grateful for what you have and what is coming ❤️👁 ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Newest podcast on “A Liv Teixeira Production” is live right now and is discussing this exact topic⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Tomorrow episode – the cause of the desire for these materialistic things ⁣⁣Tuesday’s episode – how to become truly successful (fulfillment + happiness)Read More »
  • Get Serious

    Get Serious

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    GET SERIOUS 👀✨⁣⁣… about your peace.⁣… about your future.⁣… about your goals.⁣… about your love.⁣… about your faith.⁣… about your mental.⁣… about your life.⁣… about your self.⁣⁣You are single handedly the biggest influence on your life. Not the government. Not your friends. Not your family. Not your upbringing. Not the “odds”. YOU have the most power over your life, your decisions, your aspirations and your thoughts/feelings/emotions. Make this next season one where you focus on you. Get your mind right. Get your body right. Get your relationship with YOU stronger than ever before. Stop looking at the things you don’t have. Stop comparing yourself to others. Like they say don’t compare your chapter 1 to their chapter 20. Focus on you & where you’re at. Do us on mastering your craft. Focus on making progress each day. ⁣⁣Happiness and fulfillment comes from within 👀✨🙌🏽🔐📝Read More »
  • The 3 Things That Actually Matter

    The 3 Things That Actually Matter

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    At the end of your life 3 things matter⁣⁣1. Who you were at your core⁣⁣Did you stay true to who you are at your core? What matters to you? What do you care about? We’re so influenced and persuaded by media and social norms to want “certain” things. What do you thoroughly enjoy? What makes you smile cheek to cheek? We’re pressured by our parents, our friends and social norms to want and desire certain things… a certain lifestyle… a certain car or family…but does that make you genuinely happy? Is that you living your most authentic life? who are you at your core and what is it that you truly desire? the second photo is something I wrote in 2017 and let’s be real… this shit hasn’t changed. I will always be that person because it’s who I am at my core. ⁣⁣⁣2. Who you were when no one noticed ⁣⁣Did you make the world a better place? Did you contribute to the world? Did you raise beautiful, honest and good children? Did you give time to charities or making the world a better place? Did you have some sort of purpose or mission you worked towards? Did you leave the world a better place than you found it? ⁣⁣⁣3. How happy & fulfilled you truly were⁣⁣Happiness is enjoying the current moment. The people, places and things in your life will bring your happiness – make sure you choose them wisely. Happiness is a decision. ⁣⁣Your fulfillment will come from doing something or contributing to something that’s bigger than you! It comes from living a life that is truly fueled by your passion and purpose. Make sure you give yourself the time to pursue something that you’re passionate about.⁣⁣Everyone talks about authenticity. But authenticity goes deeper than just expressing …Read More »
  • The 4 Benefits Of Alone Time

    The 4 Benefits Of Alone Time

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    THE BENEFITS OF BEING ALONE: 4 R’s to get clear on your future through the gift of solitude ⁣⁣_________________________________________________________⁣⁣1. Reduction Of Addictive Behaviors: ⁣⁣Breaking your routine and your daily “norm” will force you to break subconscious patterns and programming. Begin to realize what you are craving in these moments of solitude, once you rip away the typical daily structures.⁣⁣_________________________________________________________⁣⁣2. Clear Reset Of The Mind: ⁣⁣Reset of your thoughts, habits, and routine will leave you not only refreshed but also grounded.⁣⁣_________________________________________________________⁣⁣3. Emotional Reconnection With Self: ⁣⁣Without the distractions of your phone or other people you are able to reconnect with your body and your emotions. Here, with little stimuli, you will be able to connect with your true self.⁣⁣_________________________________________________________⁣⁣4. Reevaluation Of Thoughts/Vision: ⁣⁣Reevaluate and decipher what is yours vs what is others. What are your thoughts/beliefs and what are not… What are your dreams/desires and what are not.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣🌸 New episode of A Liv Teixeira Production on this exact topic will be live atRead More »
  • You Don’t Have To Have It All Together…

    You Don’t Have To Have It All Together…

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    You don’t have to have it all together⁣⁣⁣You don’t have to be perfect⁣⁣⁣You don’t always have to do the “right” thing ⁣⁣⁣At the end of the day we are all human beings just doing our best. Some are doing better than others but that’s subjective isn’t it? What is better? Are you looking at someone who has more money than you as better? Or someone that has better looks? Or more confidence? Trust me when I say, I’ve met all types of people and one thing that is consistent among everyone is they have their good days and bad days just like you! No ones life is perfect. No one has 100% good days. And just like you wouldn’t wish for someone else’s challenges don’t wish for their success either. Because it’s not yours. Yours is perfectly and uniquely designed for you. Allow yourself to let go in the process 🙌🏽⁣⁣🗣💯Let this be a reminder that you’re exactly where you need to be to learn the lessons you need to learn that will get you where you’re trying to go. Take a deep breath and enjoy this stage of your life 🙏🏽⁣⁣Enjoy it because it only happens once. We won’t ever get back this moment or this week or even this year. Focus on the now and being grateful for what you currently have + what’s on the way. Life isn’t about comparing. It’s about figuring out what YOU want and working towards that every day. It’s you vs you. Seriously. That’s the only game you should be playing because it’s the only one that actually matters!Read More »
  • Importance Of Alone Time

    Importance Of Alone Time

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    Sometimes you just have to get away to figure out what you truly want⁣⁣⁣This past weekend I spent all day everyday at the beach, soul searching 🌊✨⁣⁣Perfect way to start Q3 and the second half of the year the right way💥🥊⁣⁣I had lots of realizations and break throughs and I came up with a plan of attack for the next 6 months but I’m going to save you the long sappy post and I’ll simplify the tangible things you can focus on to create the life you desire⁣⁣⁣1. What do YOU want⁣– not what your parents want⁣– not what your friends want for you⁣– not what society pressures you to want⁣– what YOU want – deeply, passionately and unconditionally⁣– hint: this typically takes some alone time, journaling and meditation – gift yourself the gift of solitude 🙌🏽⁣⁣⁣2. What is your life vision⁣***get rid of any expectation or boundaries, go for it all! Ignore what people have said “is possible”… what’s possible is whatever you choose to create ⁣– think BIG, write down what you want for your health, wealth, career, love and relationships⁣– be specific, this should bring up emotions (if not, you’re doing it wrong – dig deeper) ⁣⁣⁣3. What is the 3 step process to get there??⁣– yes I understand it’s multifaceted and complicated and quite frankly not that simple⁣– but what if it is that simple?⁣– play with me here and make it as simple as you possibly can. For each area of your life (health, wealth, career, love and relationships) figure out your life vision (Step 2) and come up with 3 steps needed in order to achieve that vision ⁣⁣KISS – KEEP IT SIMPLE STUPID⁣⁣⁣4. Map your actions⁣– create a daily action step that moves the needle in these areas of your life that you …Read More »
  • Human Connection

    Human Connection

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    Human connection ⁣⁣⁣The only thing that really matters at the end of the day⁣⁣⁣And to be honest the only thing we essentially NEED to survive⁣⁣⁣Make sure you’re making an effort to put the people you love in your life 1st⁣⁣Before the job⁣Before the money⁣Before all the other bs⁣Cause that stuff doesn’t really matter quite like people do 🤷🏼‍♀️⁣⁣⁣Some ideas⁣☕️A cup of coffee⁣🍽A dinner for two ⁣☎️An hour long phone call to catch up ⁣🌿A walk in nature ⁣⁣⁣Time is the most valuable asset we have and what better way to spend time than with those you care about the most ❤️⁣⁣⁣Put down the phone and get connected 🙌🏽 Here is a podcast I did on the importance of human connection and 5 ways you can improve it in your own life! More »
  • Self Love Is Not A Fucking Face Mask

    Self Love Is Not A Fucking Face Mask

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    Self love is not a fucking face mask⁣⁣⁣There is a time and a place for that type of “self love”… should you do it? YES Is it the most important part of self love? ABSOLUTELY NOT⁣⁣⁣SELF LOVE IS SELF DISCIPLINE ⁣⁣This includes doing the things you don’t want to do. Waking up early. Going to bed late. Missing social events. Sacrificing fun or pleasure. Aka putting in the work 🙌🏽 Self discipline is how you show up for yourself. If you said you were going to wake up at 5 am to meditate, do it. If you said you were going to hit the gym 4 times this week, do it. Whatever you said you were going to do, you better fucking do it!!! Why? Because our relationship with ourselves is just as important as our relationships with others. If we said we were going to meet up with a friend for lunch on Monday and we just didn’t show up…. they would be pissed. They’d be wondering where you were and why you didn’t show up? When you don’t show up for yourself you slowly stop believing in yourself. ⁣⁣⁣SELF LOVE IS CHOOSING THE HARD & RIGHT DECISION OVER THE EASY & WRONG DECISION ⁣⁣We all go through seasons in life. Sometimes we’re working on our business. Sometimes we’re working on our health and fitness. Sometimes we’re working on our relationships. Regardless of the season there is a right and wrong time for everything. Yes there is a balance to it but don’t forget that your actions have to match your destiny. If you want to double your income, act like it. If you want to build muscle, act like it. If you want to work on your health, act like it. If you want to achieve financial freedom, …Read More »
  • Vulnerability Can Be Your Biggest Strength

    Vulnerability Can Be Your Biggest Strength

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    Getting great at something happens over time BUT your dedication and commitment happens in an instant 🔥🙌🏽⁣⁣When you’re able to make small shifts if your mindset and beliefs, you get massive results⁣⁣⁣Here’s a video of me (enjoy the heavy breathing lol) after hiking Runyon with no breaks for the first time ever! Feeling really fucking good and working towards 6 pack abs 👀⁣⁣⁣Losing weight has always been challenging for me in the past. This was something I struggled with for years but now it seems so simple! ⁣⁣⁣I’m serious when I say mindset shifts are POWERFUL! It makes things work for you instead of working against you! It allows you execute more and utilize strategies that 10X your results. ⁣⁣Comment below something you are COMMITTED to achieving over the next few months 🙌🏽🔥 let’s support each other while we all strive for greatness & personal masteryRead More »
  • YOU Are The Problem

    YOU Are The Problem

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    You are the reason you aren’t where you want to be – not your friends, not your family, not your situation or anything else! YOU!! When you stop making excuses and you stop creating friction/resistance you’re able to invite wonderful and amazing things into your life 🙌🏽Read More »


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    Took my first ever heels class and fucking loved it 🔥 my inner washed up (highschool) dancer would be proud 🙌🏽 definitely coming back to this class!! 🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨Always do things that challenge you and push you out of your comfort zone. How you do one thing is how you do everything. I challenge myself in physical ways so that when mental challenges come up, I know exactly how to respond 🔥Read More »
  • Some People Will Understand Your Journey, Some Won’t

    Some People Will Understand Your Journey, Some Won’t

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    Some people will understand your journey, some won’t ⁣⁣⁣Right now, a lot of my clients are redefining their tribe. They are being selective with the people they invite into their life. They are becoming more aware of what they want to become and they are only allowing themselves to align with those types of people. They are actively creating an environment that makes them flourish ✨⁣⁣⁣Everything is energy and energy doesn’t lie. When you take a quick audit of your life and the people you have in it, you can quickly identify the type of energy they bring to the table 🙌🏽⁣⁣⁣Yesterday I had @renelacad on the podcast and we discussed the importance of environment ⁣– surrounding yourself with high level achievers ⁣– people who push you to do more⁣– and also people you can have fun with, cause that’s equally as important ⁣⁣⁣For example, I’m grateful for this girl because not only can we work and work out together but we can also have fun together… sometimes too much fun 🤷🏼‍♀️⁣⁣⁣Anyways I hope you have a beautiful Memorial Day weekend and spend it with the people you love the most 💕Read More »
  • The Truth About Confidence

    The Truth About Confidence

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    My coach recently told me that I WASNT confident LOL if you know me you’re probably thinking hmmm Liv idk about that 🧐😅⁣⁣But the truth is, he was 100% right ⁣⁣I wasn’t confident…⁣⁣At least with the topic we were talking about ⁣⁣I am overall pretty confident and comfortable in my skin but I, just like everyone else, have areas where I’m not as confident 😌⁣⁣⁣Instead of going into the details of the session and how it applies to me and my life I’ll save you some time and discuss the takeaways instead (In hopes that you’ll benefit from them too)⁣⁣⁣3 TAKEAWAYS/TIPS FOR CONFIDENCE ⁣⁣1. Confidence is cultivated: you work at it and it gets better over time (think of it like a muscle, you gotta get your reps in 💪🏽) A big factor here is ACTION . You have to experiment and practice and take action in order to see these changes.⁣⁣⁣2. Everyone has the same potential to be confident regardless of your starting point. It’s all about mastering your state, your emotions and your mindset.⁣⁣⁣3. Confidence comes from knowing yourself and accepting yourself on the deepest level 🙌🏽🔥⁣⁣⁣If you’re confident in all areas and just kicking ass and taking names ignore this and keep being awesome 🤘🏽⁣⁣⁣But if you struggle with confidence or find yourself wanting to master your state, your emotions and your overall confidence, head to my Coaching Page, Apply and we’ll chat 📩Read More »
  • Success Is BUILT Not BOUGHT

    Success Is BUILT Not BOUGHT

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    Success is BUILT not BOUGHT Success is BUILT not BOUGHT⁣⁣⁣You want to get motivated?! ⁣⁣⬇️⬇️⬇️This is how you do it 🔥⁣⁣⁣⁣Small actions steps in the right directions 🎯 🚶🏽‍♂️🚶🏽‍♂️🚶🏽‍♂️🚶🏽‍♂️⁣⁣⁣⁣KEY FACTOR ➡️ you have to take small action every single day⁣⁣⁣Our actions compound (this can work to your advantage) ⁣⬇️⁣Think of all of the things you do every single day. Are they making you better? Are they keeping you complacent? Our actions compound…all of them! The good and the bad ⁣⁣⁣⁣🚨🎯 Make sure your actions are matching your desired outcome ⁣⁣⁣⁣Also,⁣If you’re struggling with taking action, check out my most recent podcast where I talk about finding urgency and taking action NOW – this podcast episode was inspired by a talk from @timstoreyofficial ⁣⁣Click the link in my bio to listen to it now!Read More »
  • Mindset Is Everything

    Mindset Is Everything

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    Mindset is everything 💯 ⁣⁣Without it you can’t implement anything that you are learning! 🔐 ⁣⁣A bad mindset is going to give you bad results…⁣⁣⁣(Regardless of the strategy) 🚨🚨🚨⁣⁣⁣🔻If you want good results…⁣⁣✅Adopt and practice a good mindset ⁣⁣⁣⁣🔻If you want great results…⁣⁣✅Adopt and practice a great mindset⁣⁣⁣⁣🔻If you want absolutely outstanding result…⁣⁣✅✅✅Adopt and practice an absolutely outstanding mindset⁣⁣⁣⁣You can have anything you want in the world you just have to be willing to put in the work and develop the mindset that is conducive for the desired result 🙌🏽🔥⁣⁣⁣You are worth it and you can 100% create anything you want in your life 💯Read More »
  • The Ultimate Life Strategy

    The Ultimate Life Strategy

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    Life is about getting better and better by the day⁣⁣⚖️Some days are better than others⁣⁣⚖️Some days are more challenging than others⁣⁣⁣Remember: ⁣⁣📈Progress isn’t linear⁣⁣📈Healing isn’t linear ⁣⁣📈Success isn’t linear ⁣⁣⁣Also Remember:⁣⁣✅It’s you vs you⁣⁣✳️Other people’s success is irrelevant to you and yours ⁣⁣❇️Focus on what you want life to be⁣⁣❇️Focus on what you are trying to create for yourself ⁣⁣⁣@philmccarthyfit reminded me in his last video that god or the universe or whatever you believe in, DIDNT make you who you are⁣⁣⁣…they/it/he/she gave you the ability to BUILD what you are able to BECOME ⁣⁣⁣So go build it 🔥🙏🏼🙌🏽🛠📈Read More »
  • Listening To Your Gut…

    Listening To Your Gut…

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    Listening to your gut…⁣⁣It’s important yet we don’t always do it⁣⁣Actually…We often ignore it⁣⁣We ignore that little voice in our head that says:⁣⁣“Do it”⁣“Speak up” ⁣“That’s what you really want”⁣⁣There’s a million reasons why we don’t listen to our instincts 🤦🏼‍♀️⁣⁣Usually, it’s because we value someone else’s opinion or idea more than we value our own ❌⁣⁣The most recent episode of A LIV TEIXEIRA PRODUCTION dives into not only the importance of listening to your intuition but also how crucial it is to embrace that little voice in your head in you want lifelong happiness & fulfillment ⁣✅ CHECK IT OUT ON ITUNES & SPOTIFYRead More »
  • The Best (And Easiest) Way To Build Stronger Relationships

    The Best (And Easiest) Way To Build Stronger Relationships

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    The best (and easiest) way to build stronger relationships ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣UNDERSTAND YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE → Which will also help you understand others’ love languages⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣💌 FIRST off, what the heck is a love language?⁣⁣ ⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ • It’s the way we show and receive love⁣⁣⁣⁣ • Some people do it verbally and others by actions⁣⁣⁣⁣ • Think of all the ways you show (friends, family and partners) love and appreciation ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣👫 SECOND, how does knowing this help me build stronger relationships?⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Well, the more you can understand about yourself → the more you can understand about others. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣💡Knowing your love language helps you communicate to others the ways you feel most loved and appreciated (hence, strengthening the relationship). When you know the 5 love languages you are able to identify what others’ primary love language could potentially be! This helps you build a stronger connection with others.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣…Some people like little love notes 💌⁣⁣⁣⁣…Some people like compliments 💑 ⁣⁣⁣⁣…Some people enjoy meaningful conversation over a nice dinner 🗣⁣⁣⁣⁣…Some people like when you pick up their favorite coffee or dessert 💭 ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Everyone is different!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES:⁣⁣⁣⁣🗣 Words of Affirmation⁣⁣⁣⁣⏰ Quality Time⁣⁣⁣⁣🎁 Receiving Gifts ⁣⁣⁣⁣🤝 Acts of Service⁣⁣⁣⁣😍 Physical Touch ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Want to learn more about the impact of knowing and understanding YOUR love language? Check out the most recent episode of A LIV TEIXEIRA PRODUCTION More »
  • Let’s Get Real

    Let’s Get Real

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    I don’t believe in making your waist smaller and your ass bigger for IG 🤷🏼‍♀️⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣If you like to do that BY ALL MEANS continue to do that but just know that you don’t HAVE to ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣We live in a world of unrealistic expectations (sometimes ones that we even create ourselves) I recently came across an IG page solely dedicated to pointing out celebrities and influencers that edit their pictures with photoshop/facetune ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I see so many people getting Botox and fillers and getting their lips done and all of those things are totally cool to get… it’s a decision that everyone can make as an individual but I’d love to be a voice of reason here ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣❤️🚨Natural beauty is still a thing! Everyone is so unique and special in their own ways and it’s about embracing what makes us different not trying to fit a mold of what we should look like ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Just because you like big lips and a smaller waist doesn’t mean you have to have it to!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣🤔What happened to the days where we just admired others for their unique and special features? ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣We can admire it from afar! I think @jlo has some of the most gorgeous features on the planet but it doesn’t mean I have to have them too 😌⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⬇️⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣🚨🚨🚨⁣⁣We can love something about someone else without an incessant need to have it for ourselves as well⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣🚨🚨🚨⁣⁣⬆️⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣No amount of surgery or editing on Facetune is actually going to make you happy in real life!! ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣REMINDER:⁣⁣⁣⁣Happiness and acceptance and self love comes from within 🌸💕 I love you all and I hope you know you are enough and you are beautiful just the way you are 😘⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣💜❤️🧡💛💚💙⁣⁣Read More »
  • Life Is Happening For You (Not To You)

    Life Is Happening For You (Not To You)

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    Life is happening for you (not to you)⁣⁣Sometimes we focus so much on what we don’t have instead of becoming 100% appreciative of what we DO have!⁣⁣Gratitude is the answer 🙏🏽⁣⁣When we move into a place of gratitude and appreciation we allow ourselves to see the opportunities around us ❤️ ⁣⁣Our brains are designed to work in our best interest (RES) If you are looking for the bad in the world… you will find it. If you’re looking for the good in the world… you will also find it ⁣⁣❌❌❌Stop focusing on ⁣Negativity ⁣Disservice ⁣Unfairness ⁣Pain ⁣Grief ⁣⁣⬇️⁣⁣✅✅✅And switch your focus to ⁣Positivity ⁣Opportunity ⁣Happiness ⁣Joy⁣Possibility ⁣⁣⁣Yes I say switch because it IS that easy. You can literally just make a decision to change. Where your focus goes your energy flows. I’m not saying it will happen over night but changing your focus can change your entire life.⁣⁣Where do you want to focus your energy in the future?⁣⁣⁣Let’s all commit to becoming so engulfed in gratitude that you can’t even worry about who and what is not yours. You are too focused on your current & future blessings 🙏🏽⁣⁣⁣Comment below and tell me what you’re grateful for (present or future):⁣⁣I am so happy and grateful that…Read More »
  • In Case You Didn’t Know…

    In Case You Didn’t Know…

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    In case you didn’t know…⁣⁣🚨🚨🚨I’m a life and business strategist ⁣⁣I’m a no bullshit coach who also wants you to create fulfillment and happiness on a whole new level⁣⁣I’m your biggest supporter and toughest coach all in one: I WANT YOU TO WIN!!!⁣⁣⁣When I was a little kid everyone used to ask me what I wanted to do when I grew up 🤔⁣⁣⁣My answer?⁣⁣⁣I want to help people 💭⁣I want to change the world 🌎 ⁣ ⁣⁣⁣THEIR response:⁣⁣Typically something along the lines of…⁣⁣“Ohh that’s so cute! You’ll have to find a real job and maybe do some charity work on the side.”⁣⁣⁣I played along and let them dish out their opinions but 8 year old Liv and 18 year old Liv had one thing in common: She was determined to help people 💪🏽🔥⁣⁣⁣I went to school to become a pediatric oncology nurse because I heard it was the toughest, most rewarding and impact driven job out there! I mean what’s more emotionally intense and challenging than a child battling cancer? I was convinced that was going to be the way I helped save the world! 🎗⁣⁣⁣The more I learned about traditional medicine the more I learned that this wasn’t going to be my avenue for helping people⁣⁣⁣So I switched lanes ⁣⁣⬇️⁣⁣I became OBSESSED with professional, emotional, spiritual and personal growth📈⁣⁣⬇️⁣⁣I did everything I could to learn more about personal development and specifically HOW the mind works⁣⁣How it helps us & how it hurts us ⁣👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽⁣⁣♦️What motivates people⁣♦️What drives people⁣♦️What stops people⁣♦️What holds them back ⁣♦️How people create massive change ⁣⁣🏆I studied the greats…⁣⁣📚I read the books…⁣⁣🎧I listened to the podcasts and stories…⁣⁣🙌🏽I attended the events…⁣⁣At the end of the day, 8 year old Liv knew what the fuck she wanted to do. She just allowed other people’s limitations to cloud …Read More »
  • How To Discover Your Passion

    How To Discover Your Passion

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    🚨HOW TO DISCOVER YOUR PASSION⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I know you’re probably expecting some long caption like usual⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣But today it’s going to be short and sweet because I’m doing an ENTIRE podcast about this!!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣It will be live tomorrow morning for some MONDAY MOTIVATION ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣SUBSCRIBE TO “A LIV TEIXEIRA PRODUCTION” to hear the 🔥🔥🔥 you don’t want to miss this one 😏 More »
  • Your Biggest Challenge

    Your Biggest Challenge

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    The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.⁣⁣– Albert Einstein ⁣⁣How does this relate to you?⁣❓❓❓❓❓❓❓❓❓❓⁣⁣Well, if you’re consistently getting an undesirable result then you have some type of pattern that’s not working in your favor⁣⁣It could be anything! ⁣➖Friends ⁣➖Environment ⁣➖Mindset⁣➖State ⁣⁣Regardless, you have a pattern that’s not helping you achieve a desired outcome 🔄❌⁣⁣You guys are smart people 🧠 ⁣⁣⬇️⁣⁣I know you understand that doing the same thing over and over again but expecting a DIFFERENT result is the definition of INSANITY ⁣⁣(Honest truth⬇️)⁣⁣But you’re still doing it… you wouldn’t be reading this post if you weren’t 🤷🏼‍♀️ you’d be out there living the dream life that you so badly want!!⁣⁣⁣It’s NOT your fault, we all fall into this trap⁣⁣⁣But how do we change it? ⁣⁣⁣There’s a million reasons why this pattern was created but at the end of the day you need to break this pattern and habit so you can get the outcome you want. ✅✅✅⁣⁣That is exactly what I do with my clients ⁣⁣I coach my badass clients to get rid of the bs habits that aren’t serving them⁣⁣I help them replace those bs habits with empowering and action delivering habits (this shit is powerful 🔥🔥🔥 I’m talking about massive change)⁣⁣These simple switches drastically change the trajectory of their success⁣⁣🚨🔍⁣I’m looking for bad ass driven people who are ready to show up FULLY as themselves and CONQUER this thing we call life⁣⁣If thats you…⁣⁣ Fill out the application on my Coaching Tab ⁣⁣If that’s not you… keep mindlessly scrolling I hope you have a wonderful day 🙌🏽Read More »
  • The Truth Most People Won’t Tell You

    The Truth Most People Won’t Tell You

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    The truth most people won’t tell you ⁣⁣⁣⁣I hear this all the time…⁣⁣⁣⁣💭Someday I’m going to go to Europe ⁣⁣💭Someday I’m going to build my side hustle think ⁣⁣💭Someday I’m going to make a fuck ton of money⁣⁣💭Someday I’m going to have an amazing relationship ⁣⁣⁣⁣🤫🤫🤫⁣⁣I’ll let you in on a little secret… ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣❌❌❌ITS NEVER COMING!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣We have these big beautiful grandiose plans for life⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣What we want…⁣⁣What we don’t want…⁣⁣The places we want to see…⁣⁣The people we want to see them with…⁣⁣⁣⁣🏖💰 ⁣⁣Yet we plan on making this happen “someday”⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Someday isn’t a day in the week⁣⁣It’s not a set time in the future⁣⁣⁣⁣Someday…. doesn’t exist ⁣⁣⁣⁣Don’t be one of those lame people that think it will happen without a clear plan and execution 👎🏽⁣⁣⁣⬇️⁣⁣⁣You’re either executing or you’re not ⁣⁣⁣⬇️⁣⁣⁣You’re either working towards your goals or you’re not⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣There’s no in between 🙅🏼‍♀️⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Today’s podcast discusses the 3 easy steps to overcoming the “someday” mentalityRead More »
  • GOOD Is The Enemy Of Great

    GOOD Is The Enemy Of Great

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    GOOD is the enemy of GREAT⁣⁣⁣Being comfortable and content is a dangerous place to be ⁣⬇️⁣I just got off the phone with one of my best friends from Los Angeles and she “checked” me a bit ⁣⁣She helped me see things from a bigger picture…⁣⁣I’m not doing enough 🤷🏼‍♀️ it’s the truth! I’m not living up to my fullest potential ⁣⁣I have huge BIG dreams and visions for myself and If I don’t execute more then they won’t come true ⁣⁣⁣And to me not trying is the ultimate FAILURE❌❌❌⁣⁣⁣Who in your life is pushing you❓⁣⁣⁣Do you have people that challenge your thinking and your mindset❓ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⬇️ 🏖 ⁣I’m going to Miami this week for a conference that is going to be uncomfortable and intimidating af⁣⁣Why? ⁣⁣Because most of the people are waaaay ahead of me 😱 so I’m a bit scared 🤷🏼‍♀️⁣⁣I’m a bit nervous to be honest but I know putting myself in situations that are intimidating will force me to GROW ⁣⁣⁣🔥To grow into the person I know I am capable of becoming 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽⁣⁣⁣Are you putting yourself in these situations or are you SETTLING for good when you know you can be GREAT❓⁣⁣⁣If you’re ready to create a GREAT life drop a heart in the comments below! Let’s make this shit happen 🔥🔥🔥Read More »
  • How To Make Massive Change

    How To Make Massive Change

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    🚨DON’T READ BELOW unlesssss…⁣⁣Youre ready to make MASSIVE CHANGE!!💪🏽⁣⁣What is massive change? And what’s the difference between that and just regular old change? 😅 ⁣⁣Well… Im sure youve “changed” before…⁣⁣And I’m sure it didn’t last ⁣⁣…”I’m going to go to sleep early on Sundays”⁣⁣… “I’m going to eat healthy this week”⁣⁣….”I’m going to keep my room clean” ⁣⁣…”I’m not drinking ever again” 😂⁣⁣Lol its the truth 🤷🏼‍♀️⁣⁣MASSIVE CHANGE is different ⁣⁣I teach my clients how to create MASSIVE CHANGE in their lives.⁣⁣❌We work together to identify the faulty patters and beliefs that govern our decisions ⬇️⁣⁣✅We replace these faulty patterns and beliefs with newly designed optimal habits ⁣ ⁣If massive change is the goal we need to work on FOCUS 🔬🔬🔬⁣⁣👀We work together to identify and redirect your focus so that you can create the results you desire ⁣ ⁣⁣We zone in on the WHY so that you can push LESS and be pulled MORE to your goal 😏🙌🏽⁣⁣Like I said above do NOT read this unless you’re ready to make MASSIVE CHANGE 🚨🚨🚨⁣⁣Why?⁣⁣✳️✳️✳️Because I am currently accepting 5 new life & business coaching clients⁣⁣I only work with people who are committed to making massive change 🙌🏽🔥⁣⁣So before you say YES and DM me that you’re in, let’s talk logistics and results ☝🏽⁣⁣◾️I help people conquer, attack and demolish a specific goal in 90 days or less ⁣⁣◾️I help people like you find their target and knock it out of the park⁣⁣If you’re looking for a life and business strategist who is going to push you more and dig deeper than you ever have before….⁣⁣If you are ready and willing to put in the work to change your life forever… ⁣⁣⁣Apply on my coaching page and let’s make this happen!Read More »
  • 4 Steps To Becoming Immediately More Confident

    4 Steps To Becoming Immediately More Confident

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    🚨4 STEPS TO BECOMING IMMEDIATELY MORE CONFIDENT🚨⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣1. BUILD BELIEVABILITY & TRUST WITH YOURSELF!!!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣2. DO THE WORK!!!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣3. CHANGE YOUR MOTHER FUCKING STATE!!!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣4. BE VULNERABLE!!!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I go into DETAIL on this and how to create lasting change and drastically improve your confidence on my latest podcast!! 🎧🗣 it’s a DO NOT MISS EPISODE!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ More »
  • The #1 Hack To Make 2019 A Total Success

    The #1 Hack To Make 2019 A Total Success

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    Listen, I’m not perfect⁣⁣➖I have shit too!⁣⁣➖I have things I’m insecure about ⁣⁣➖I have areas Im working on⁣⁣➖I have areas I haven’t seen progress in weeks ⁣⁣➖I have things I want to change⁣⁣WE ALL HAVE THIS ⁣⁣So get the embarrassment/the shame/the lack of self belief THE FUCK OUT OF HERE 🙅🏼‍♀️💁🏽‍♀️⁣⁣Why?⁣⁣❌Because there’s no room for it if you’re looking to grow⁣⁣❌There’s no room for negativity and putting yourself down⁣⁣💯Your vibe attracts your tribe ENERGY MATTERS⁣⁣If you really want 2019 to be different than 2018? DO THIS 🔥🔥🔥⁣⁣⁣⁣👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽⁣Shift your energy, raise your vibration, improve the self talk ⁣👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽⁣⁣⁣With my clients we…⁣⁣❌Stop focusing on the things that do not serve you⁣⁣💯Redirect your focus for the desired results, where your focus goes your energy flows⁣If you focus on all of the negative things, people, and feelings in your life… you are going to get more of them❌🔄⁣⁣Sooo⁣INSTEAD ⁣We…⁣⁣💯Focus on the positive people⁣💯Focus on the positive things ⁣💯Focus on the positive feelings ⁣💯Focus on all the blessings you have in your life⁣⁣Change your state physically and mentally ⁣⁣Operate out of a place of gratitude and appreciation and your entire life will change 🙏🏼❤️⁣⁣I PROMISE YOU!!!!!Read More »
  • Stop Striving For Perfection

    Stop Striving For Perfection

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    PROGRESS OVER PERFECTION 🚨⁣⁣Too many of us are pushing ourselves to perfection…⁣⁣What even is “perfect”?⁣⁣If “perfection” is the goal you are going to encounter a lot of hesitation, anxiety and worry throughout the process… who else has experienced this 🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️⁣⁣How do we reverse this?⁣⁣💥Identify where the strive for perfection comes from…. who’s opinion do you care about MORE than your own happiness?!⁣⁣⁣⁣This podcast discusses how to transform your desire of perfectionism into PROGRESS because progress is powerful 💪🏽 it’s what keeps us coming back for more! ⁣⁣⁣⁣Click the link in my bio to listen to the latest episode of A Liv Teixeira Production 🎧🗣⁣⁣✅ Subscribe ⁣✅ Download the episode ⁣✅ Share it with a friend ⁣✅ Leave a reviewRead More »
  • If You’ve Ever Thought About Going To Tony Robbins, Read This

    If You’ve Ever Thought About Going To Tony Robbins, Read This

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    The 6 reasons I tell EVERYONE to go to a Tony Robbins event in their life time ⬇️⁣⁣1️⃣You learn about your beliefs. How they serve you, how they hurt you, which beliefs you want to hold onto, which ones you want to let go of⁣⁣2️⃣You learn about focus, momentum and taking massive action ⁣⁣3️⃣You learn how to drastically change your state to yield desired results ⁣⁣4️⃣You learn all things health, breathing, lympasizing and vitality (wish I knew this stuff years ago)⁣⁣5️⃣You learn about the 6 human needs, how you value them in chronological order, how they serve you (positively and negatively) and the needs you want to utilize to transform your life ⁣⁣6️⃣AND you meet amazing like minded people that will most likely be lit long friends 💕 ⁣⁣⁣All in all … we aren’t taught this stuff growing up, we’re not taught it at school either! It’s so important to know how you operate and WHY you operate the way you do! ⁣⁣⁣⁣Anything you think or feel has a route cause and reason! There’s nothing wrong with you 🙌🏽 This event is a great way to dive deep and figure out who you are, who you’ve been and more importantly, who you want to become ✨⁣⁣⁣⁣And if you want to walk across fire this is the event to do so 🔥🔥🔥⁣ So much love for everyone I met this weekend 💕Read More »
  • Do This DAILY, Results Will Amaze You

    Do This DAILY, Results Will Amaze You

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    If you’re not doing this DAILY, yikes 😳 you should start ASAP⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣This weekend @morgiily and I were recognised for our dedication to lifting each other up.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣It was something we didn’t pay much attention to until we left @jetsetfly M3 event. We had a 4 hour drive to chat so trust me we talked everything business, life, goals and more⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣What brought this up?⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Well over the weekend, Morgan and I were hyping each other up (per usual) ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣And two of the girls we were lucky enough to spend the weekend with, said “Hey, we need to do more of that” 👁⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣And the truth is..⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Yes, you do! You do need to do it WAY more!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣We all do.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣We all need to say what truly on our minds ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣When we like an idea,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣When we like an outfit, ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣When we feel some type of way, SAY IT!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣This helps us spread love and live in a world fueled by GRATITUDE⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣If you want to share more uplifting words but you don’t…⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Lets face it 😤 ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣You’re robbing yourself and the wonderful people around you of genuine connection ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Aka you’re robbing yourself and your loved ones of joy, happiness and love ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣❌❌❌ It’s NOT just compliments on looks & outfits ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣✅ Its compliments on ideas⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣✅ Its compliments on progress ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣✅ Its compliments on mindset shifts ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣✅ Its compliments on personal & professional growth ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣If you were to sit here and tell me you don’t do this daily…I would be genuinely concerned. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣💥 It’s one of the most alarming thing you could say ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣🤦🏼‍♀️⬇️ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣BECAUSE, If you are not REGULARLY showing and expressing love to others than you are not showing and expressing love to YOURSELF 🔐🔐🔐⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣BIG PROBLEM!!!🚨🚨🚨⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Change this today, right now.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Show love every opportunity you have ❤️⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Spreading love and sharing praise makes us feel fucking amazing!! DO IT MORE!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I want to ask you…⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣How often …Read More »
  • Not Everyone Is Going To Like You

    Not Everyone Is Going To Like You

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    Not everyone is going to like you 🤷🏼‍♀️⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣😠You’re going to piss off some people⁣⁣⁣😤Anger others ⁣⁣⁣🤬And infuriate a small few⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣But at the end of the day you have to do what’s best for you. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣We’re not all going the same places 🤷🏼‍♀️ so why do we seek approval from people who don’t have what WE want?!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣It’s ok to be different. It’s ok to want more. It’s ok to not vibe with the same people you vibed with a year ago.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⬇️You’re growing⬇️⁣⁣⁣⬇️You’re evolving⬇️⁣⁣⁣And yeah let’s face it YOURE CHANGING ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Hopefully in the process of you changing you’re becoming more YOU. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣There can be some friction with change – trust me I’ve felt it. But I’ve learned how to surround myself with people that encourage and push me to do things on my terms!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Why fit in when we were born to stand out?!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Celebrate your differences 🎉 ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Empower yourself⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Be fucking YOU ✨⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Life’s way too damn short to do things that make other people happy. Start living your life in a manner that fuels you! ⁣⁣⁣➖ your happiness ⁣⁣⁣➖ your confidence ⁣⁣⁣➖ your peace of mind⁣⁣⁣➖ your goals ⁣⁣⁣➖ your Inspiration ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣💫💫💫Energy matters. What you put out, you receive. Who you surround yourself with says a lot about you and what you attract… if you don’t like it, change it.⁣ 💫💫💫⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣🚨🚨🚨Other people’s opinion of you and your choices is completely unrelated to your happiness⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I’ll say it again… in case you missed it ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣🚨🚨🚨OTHER PEOPLE’S OPINIONS OF YOU AND YOUR CHOICES IS COMPLETELY UNRELATED TO YOUR HAPPINESS ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣❤️Read More »
  • Opening Up…

    Opening Up…

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    15 years ago I was in a drastically different place ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I love going for drives and blasting music. It clears my head like nothing else & it’s gotten me through some pretty shitty times. Today I was listening to old school @eminem ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣For anyone who listens to him you know some of the lyrics can be pretty fucked up lol 😂⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣When I was growing up @eminem is all I listened to. For the longest time I felt as though he was the only one who could understand. He rapped about things that I related to on such a deep level but couldn’t talk about ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Things like…⁣⁣⁣▪️Depression ⁣⁣⁣▪️Dysfunctional/toxic relationships ⁣⁣⁣▪️Volatile marriage ⁣⁣⁣▪️Lack of a father/parental figure ⁣⁣⁣▪️Drug and alcohol abuse ⁣⁣⁣▪️Suicide and dark thoughts ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Growing up (elementary – middle school) was a very dark & lonely time. I genuinely felt the weight of the world on my shoulders…but no one knew. I never talked to anyone about it and I just handled it on my own.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I thought no one could relate. So I said nothing⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I wanted to be strong for my family so I put on a front. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Something we’ve all done ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣This role that I took on caused a lot of damage in my young adult life…⁣⁣⁣▪️Not knowing how to ask for help⁣⁣⁣▪️Putting others and their happiness before my own ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣It didn’t have to be that way. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣TBH I don’t really know why I am making this post other than the fact that I know people will relate to it. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣The sooner we realise that being open, honest & vulnerable is the answer, the sooner we can all heal.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Were stronger when we can move as a unit⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣…When we can work through personal situations as a team⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣…When we can be vulnerable.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣…When we can talk about our mistakes⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣…When we can admit that were suffering⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I’ve lost a …Read More »
  • Reasons To Be MORE Selfish

    Reasons To Be MORE Selfish

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    Being selfish is absolutely necessary…⁣⁣➡️For business success ⁣⁣➡️For relationship success ⁣⁣➡️For financial success ⁣⁣➡️For happiness & fulfillment ⁣⁣⁣⁣Being selfish isn’t a bad thing… I actually encourage it 🤷🏼‍♀️🤔⁣⁣⁣Im sure you were told growing up that being selfish is a bad thing⁣⁣🗣And that being SELFLESS was a good thing (maybe even something to admire about a person) ⁣⁣❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌You were taught all the wrong things ⁣❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌⁣You should be selfish ⁣✅selfish with your time ⁣✅selfish with your energy⁣✅selfish with your decisions ⁣⁣⁣⁣❓WHY should you be selfish? ⬇️⁣⁣Because you need to make yourself a priority in your own life! You tell yours subconscious mind, through consistent action, that you give yourself the same love and respect you so easily give to others ⁣⁣You show up for yourself ⁣You show yourself that you ARE worth it ⁣⁣⁣⁣❓How does it benefit you AND the people around you?⬇️⁣⁣⁣🔐🔐🔐⁣When you’re selfish you’re able to give from the overflow of your cup, not from an empty cup ❤️⁣⁣⁣🔐🔐🔐⁣Fill yourself up with all the experiences, conversations and people that you desire most…it will light you up 🔥⁣⁣Be selfish!!!⁣⁣There is no one on this planet who is going to put YOU first… other than YOU! ⁣⁣BE SELFISH!!!Read More »
  • Surround Yourself With This Type Of Person And It Will Change Your Life

    Surround Yourself With This Type Of Person And It Will Change Your Life

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    Surround yourself with people that intimidate you 🙌🏽⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣People that force you to think BIGGER and BOLDER 🔥⁣⁣⁣Place yourself in challenging situations ⁣ +⁣ with people that are far more experienced than yourself 🙏🏼💯⁣⁣ ⁣ =⁣ …This will EXPONENTIALLY impact your: ⁣⁣⁣⁣•mindset⁣⁣⁣⁣•influence ⁣⁣⁣⁣•confidence ⁣⁣⁣⁣•wealth ⁣⁣⁣⁣•success ⁣⁣⁣⁣❌❌❌2018 was all about trimming the fat. Being selective with who I choose to spend my time with. No negativity. No fake love. No bs relationships. ❌❌❌⁣⁣⁣⁣✅✅✅2019 is all about networking and creating relationships with people that inspire me…⁣⁣⁣⁣… And push me to do MORE!✅✅✅⁣⁣⁣⁣In the last 2 months I’ve been able to connect with more influential people than I have in my whole life! ⁣⁣⁣⁣And it taught me….⁣⁣▪️I’m no where near where I want to be ⁣⁣▪️It’s time to work harder⁣⁣▪️Being uncomfortable is inevitable and essential ⁣⁣⁣⁣Perks of being around people who intimidate you: ⁣⁣⁣⁣🔥Elevate by association ⁣⁣⁣⁣🔥Cuts your learning curve ⁣⁣⁣⁣🔥Forces you to think bigger ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣🔥 I want us all to win this year 🔥⁣⁣⁣⁣How can I help YOU with a 2019 goal?!Read More »
  • You Want More…

    You Want More…

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    You want more… ⁣⁣⁣⁣but haven’t been able to achieve it…⁣⁣⁣⁣🔸A better life ⁣⁣🔸A better relationship ⁣⁣🔸A better business ⁣⁣⁣⁣I see so many people struggle with business in the exact same ways they struggle with anything else in life⁣⁣⁣⁣It all comes down to a few things 🚨⁣⁣⁣⁣I hate to say it but the real reason you’re not seeing success and you haven’t made massive change in your business is… drum roll please…. 🥁 ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣🛑Limiting beliefs ⁣⁣⁣⁣🛑Lack of self worth ⁣⁣⁣⁣🛑Lack of self love ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I know I know you probably don’t want to hear this…⁣⁣⁣⁣You’d rather hear the tactile stuff 😤 What are the THINGS I can do to have more success??⁣⁣⁣⁣Let’s be real though… you know the things. ⁣⁣⁣⁣It’s not rocket science 🚀 ⁣⁣⁣⁣You know what you SHOULD be doing, yet you don’t do it.⁣⁣⁣⁣↘️Limiting beliefs get in the way every time. We are designed to flourish and grow yet we hold ourselves back in so many ways↖️⁣⁣⁣This is something I could talk about for hours. For now i’ll leave it at this… maybe another solo podcast is needed 🎧⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣A friendly reminder:⁣⁣⁣⁣💫You are whole and complete⁣⁣⁣⁣💫You have everything inside of you to accomplish whatever it is you want ⁣⁣⁣⁣💫Be kind to yourself ⁣⁣⁣⁣💫Stop playing small, Dream bigger⁣⁣⁣⁣💫Trust the process ⁣⁣⁣⁣💫Embrace the things that make you, YOU!⁣⁣⁣⁣💫EXECUTE⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣One of the best things you can do in 2019 is learn to fully accept and embrace yourself! It was one of the hardest yet most valuable lessons I’ve learnedRead More »
  • You’re Missing This

    You’re Missing This

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    You know what youre supposed to do, you just haven’t done it⁣⁣⁣⁣…the hard things ⁣⁣⁣⁣…the uncomfortable things ⁣⁣⁣⁣…the challenging things ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣And you know anything worth having comes from doing MORE… ⁣⁣⁣⁣BUT you’re still not doing it⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Anything worth having comes with a cost (time, money, work, effort ➡️ typically all 4)⁣⁣⁣⁣Like many of you know I recently got back from @grantcardone ‘s 10X event. What was my biggest take away???⁣⁣⁣⁣Work Harder⁣ ⁣⁣⬇️⁣Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone⁣ ⁣⁣⬇️⁣Meet More Like-Minded Individuals ⁣ ⁣⁣⬇️⁣More Sales Calls ⁣⁣⬇️⁣⁣More Closing⁣⁣⬇️⁣⁣More Experience⁣⁣⬇️⁣⁣More Life Transformations⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣These days I’m smiling ear to ear because I’m getting used to being uncomfortable.⁣⁣⁣⁣Very used to it actually…⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣As humans, we feel most alive when were growing and progressing 📈⁣⁣⁣⁣Being stagnant is a vicious cycle🔄 I’m here to help people stop it once and for good!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Something to think about ⬇️⁣⁣⁣⁣♦️Are you living up to your fullest potential? ⁣⁣⁣⁣♦️Are you pushing yourself out of your comfort zone?⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣If you answer NO to either of these questions and you are ready to make a change, DM me a 🔥 it’s time for us to talk!⁣⁣⁣⁣Read More »
  • FUCK Your Insecurities, you’re waisting your damn time

    FUCK Your Insecurities, you’re waisting your damn time

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    🤦🏼‍♀️Fuck your insecurities ⁣⁣Insecurities & comparison are such stupid things to focus on! Life’s too short to worry about your short comings or what other people think!! 💯⁣⁣❌Today I edited my first ever solo podcast and it’s all about squashing insecurities ❌⁣⁣One of the things I didn’t touch on for this episode is your inner circle 👭 ⁣⁣It’s CRUCIAL to surround yourself with positive influences that…⁣⁣⭐️Raise you up ⁣⁣⭐️Boost your confidence⁣⁣⭐️Push you to your potential⁣⁣⭐️Inspire you ⁣⁣⭐️Fully accept you⁣⁣⭐️Challenge you⁣⁣⭐️Support you ⁣⁣We settle far too often with our friendships & relationships and they are such a crucial piece to our growth and development!⁣⁣One of the things I’ve learned is you need friends that HYPE YOU TF UP 🙌🏽💯🔥⁣ It’s a short cut to getting over any insecurity ⁣⁣⁣✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨⁣✨✨✨✨✨✨These days I choose people who make me a better and more authentic me ⁣✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨⁣✨✨✨✨✨✨⁣⁣⁣If you’re ready for the full episode on how to squash your insecurities once and for all, comment a 💯 down below 👇🏽Read More »
  • You’re Not Doing Enough

    You’re Not Doing Enough

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    You’re capable of more⁣⁣⁣⁣Sorry if you were looking for some bs inspirational post because this isn’t that 🤷🏼‍♀️⁣⁣⁣⁣I’m here to tell you that you have TWO BIG problems🚨⁣⁣⁣1️⃣ You’re not dreaming big enough ⁣⁣2️⃣ Youre not doing enough⁣⁣⁣⁣I know I come from a place of self love and motivation a lot of the time.. but the people that work with me know I can be pretty intense ⁣⁣⁣⁣… Brutal even ⁣⁣⁣⁣I tell it how it is and this is a reminder for you that you’re not where you want to be because you haven’t done what you know is necessary to get there! ⁣⁣⁣⁣I just got back from the 10X Growth Con Event… it’s all about 10X EVERYTHING: ⁣⁣from your efforts ➡️ ⁣your connection ➡️ ⁣your clients and more⁣⁣❌Multiply all of the actions that are producing success in your life and business❌⁣⁣⁣The 10X mentality is for sure a good one to adopt. Work smarter & work harder! 🧠💪🏼⁣⁣⁣⁣But what stops us?!⁣⁣⁣⁣I hate to say it but the real thing that is stopping you from making massive change in your business is… drum roll please…. 🥁 ⁣⁣⁣⁣🛑Limiting beliefs ⁣⁣🛑Lack of self worth ⁣⁣🛑Lack of self love ⁣⁣⁣⁣I’ve worked with and talked about this with so many high level entrepreneurs and almost every single one of them (regardless of their success) struggle with this exact thing! ⁣⁣⁣⁣So what helps:⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣🎯1️⃣Self awareness: identify the pattern that is not serving you⁣⁣⁣⁣🎯2️⃣Accept and embrace yourself fully: your desires, your strengths, your shortcomings -> everything ⁣⁣⁣⁣🎯3️⃣Accountability: have peers, coaches and mentors that hold you accountable to your goals. These people will push you to reach new heights⁣⁣⁣⁣🎯4️⃣You gotta see it to believe it: you don’t know what you don’t know. By that I mean I didn’t know I wanted a place in South Beach Miami 🏝 till …Read More »
  • You Can Only Connect The Dots Looking Backwards

    You Can Only Connect The Dots Looking Backwards

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    You can only connect the dots looking backwards •-•-•-•..Sometimes life brings you crazy places. A year and a half ago I was telling one of my client that I would never leave Boston never mind Massachusetts...⬇️..And here I am living in Los Angeles California over 3,000 miles away from what I used to call home🤷🏼‍♀️..Sometimes you meet people who completely change your old way of thinking! 🔁🔁🔁They flip your world upside down and they give you a whole new perspective of what you can be and what you can achieve – I’m grateful for these people❤️...On my ✈️ from Miami to LA I wrote down some names of some pivotal people who got me to where I am today! I am forever grateful that they came into my life when I was ready for change! ..Take this as a friendly reminder that you never know your limits until you test them...You never know what you can accomplish until you try..And you never know who you could be until you give yourself the power & the permission to be your most authentic self 🙌🏽 ..I hope one day I leave a legacy that I inspired and helped people to help themselves! ✨ ➡️To be more them and less of what society and the public wants.. because I’ll let you in on a little secret… it doesn’t fucking matter!..It doesn’t matter what your friends want.It doesn’t matter what your parents want.It doesn’t matter what your teachers want...What do YOU want? ..What really matters to YOU?..🔥 What do you want to be?🔥 How do you want to live your life?🔥 What experiences do you want to have?🔥 Who do you want to surround yourself with?🔥 What impact do you want to have? ..🛑 Stop living life for others..🛑 Stop second guessing your decisions …Read More »
  • The Younger You Had It RIGHT

    The Younger You Had It RIGHT

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    Your biggest problem is you don’t know what the fuck you actually want!!! Everyone thinks they have this descriptive picture of where they want to be in 10 years… good relationship, successful career etc etc. The truth is we fall short in the dreaming category. 😴💭 We don’t dream like we used to as kids….The younger you had it right… Kids dream in detail and with infinite hope and belief! We also don’t articulate what it is we truly want in almost all categories. . •RELATIONSHIPS••CAREER••INCOME••FAMILY••FREEDOM••TIME FREEDOM• Until you really sit down and map it all out you have no clue what you want! For example.. people want to be rich? Well how rich? “I want to be a millionaire” . Ok great… how much do you want to make each month❓How much do you want to make each day❓How about how much money do you want to make per hour and per minute❓What do you want to be rich for❓Do you want to spend that money on vacation❓Or cars❓Or charity❓Or clothes❓How do you want to make the money❓Why do you want the money❓How will this money positively impact your life❓And your loved one’s lives❓ When you can get to this point in goal setting it’s called a 👀VIVID VISION👀! Too often we don’t do the deeper work towards our goals and we wonder why we fall short! 🚨This is why 🚨 It’s incredibly crucial to be absolutely specific and certain on what you are setting our to achieve. If not you’re like a boat in the ocean looking for land. You’re bound to find something (eventually) but it could take double, triple or 10Xs the time! ✅✅✅Articulate what you want. ✅✅✅Discover why you want it. Then move towards that goal with certainty, regardless of the obstacles and challenges because …Read More »
  • Hi Mom, I miss you…But We’re OK

    Hi Mom, I miss you…But We’re OK

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    If I could tell my mom one thing, it would be that “I’m okay” We’re all okay. Nobody collapsed. Nobody imploded. Nobody lost themselves. Everyone is okay. ❤️ I’m sure everyone would agree that it shook our world for a while but we’re doing okay here without you! Missing you comes in waves but I think you find peace in the relationships you have and the lengths they last.. Everybody asks me how I handled loosing a parent at such a young age. I dealt with it… just like everyone else who has lost a parent does. Some deal with it better than others so I guess I can only really explain what helped me..My mom knew just exactly how much I loved her..How?.Cause I was there! There for the good days and the bad days. I tell everyone this – show the people in your life how much you truly love them while you can! Support them! Catch up with them! Cry with them! Laugh with them! Life is too short to have regrets. If there’s someone you haven’t called in a while… call them. Make sure they know you care! Everyone gets tied up with the meaningless things in life. The stupid shit. People and relationships and true connection is all that truly matters. Without that stuff you have nothing! Today, I was working and saw that the sun was setting and I wasn’t going to even go outside to look at it. Sunsets and going for drives blasting music are some of my favorite simple things the world has to offer ❤️ it’s gotten me through some good times and bad time! I thought I was going to miss it but then I just said fuck it and grabbed my keys!. Turned out to be one of the …Read More »
  • Some Of The BEST Advice I’ve EVER Received

    Some Of The BEST Advice I’ve EVER Received

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    You’re not afraid, you’re uncertain. Don’t get it confused. ⬇️Some of the best things in our lives comes from uncertain situations...🔻Meeting our college friends.🔻Finding a significant other.🔻Starting a new business.🔻Even trying sushi for the first time. No risk = No reward..If you are willing to step out of your comfort zone and execute in pursuit of your dreams, life will generously reward you!.. ❓Are you willing to take the risk? ..❓Are you willing to fail in front of others? ..❓Are you willing to show up as your authentic self? If you’re not willing to take risks then nothing in your life is going to change 🙅🏼‍♀️ NOTHING. You’ll be exactly where you are this time next year if you allow fear to guide you...🔄Same car…🔄Same income…🔄Same shitty relationships…🔄Same half ass unfulfilling business… You’re allowing uncertainty and unfamiliarity to rob you of all the blessings this world has to offer..➖You’re playing small and you know it➖ Be willing to get a little uncomfortable…actually fuck that.. Get uncomfortable as much and as often as you can!! You will only grow from the experience! Become the type of person who leads with certainly, confidence and excitement to try and learn new things.🔥 If you’re really ready to change and make you and your business a priority, I want to hear from you. I am accepting 5 new clients for my 90 day coaching program. In the 90 day life transformation program we will focus on the following in order to get you the outcome you desire:.🎯Accountability Standards Scalability 2X Income Proper Goal Setting🎯..Through this coaching program you will learn who you are and why you operate the way you do (this is a major 🔑). We will work on improving your mindset and perspective for more optimal outcomes and of course were gonna talk all things overcoming …Read More »
  • January, Quarter 1 2019

    January, Quarter 1 2019

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    WE HAVE 68 DAYS LEFT!!!..If you guessed we have 68 days left of the 1st quarter of the year then you would be right!! Having goals is absolutely CRUCIAL to your success in relationships, career & overall happiness...Without goals your aimlessly trying to achieve something that you haven’t even properly defined. Sounds silly? Yes, because it is! Goal setting is what makes the greats, GREAT! I could go over a long list of highly successful individuals and the biggest and most common theme amongst all of them is… they ALL have goals!..👇🏽..GOAL SETTING: What’s ACTUALLY Important?🚨 1️⃣Tangible Goals – You need to have tangible results. This means numbers and specifics. You want more clients, how many? You want more time flexibility, how much? How often? When? 2️⃣Strategic Action Plan – What is the end goal? What is the fastest and most effective route to achieve this goal? What is the break down of action steps that are needed this month, this week, and every day this week? 3️⃣Accountability – Who are you accountable to? Who is checking in on you daily to make sure you’re keeping your promise to yourself? Who is keeping you on track and not giving into your bullshit excuses?..HOW MANY TIMES DID YOU BREAK YOUR OWN PROMISE?! You said you were going to reach out to 3 new potential customers. Did you do it? You said you were going to get your email subscription up and running? Did you do it? You said you were going to get on double the sales calls this month? Did you do it???..If you’re still reading this I would guess that you thought you would be further along by now….. 💔You thought “new year, new me”, this will be the year I make it (insert your dream here) happen!!!..LISTEN,Just because …Read More »
  • We All Struggle..Here’s How To Change It

    We All Struggle..Here’s How To Change It

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    I truly believe positivity and mental strength is a muscle that you strengthen over time. I have been working on this shit since I was in the womb.. Wish I was kidding lol But for real this type of mental strength takes time. And it’s time I’m more open and honest about my own struggles, self doubt and limiting beliefs because we all have them. And I believe that true connection comes from being honest and vulnerable! In 2018 I really, truly learned what self love is: In my relationships, my friendships and most importantly with the relationship I have with myself. I learned to BE KIND to myself in the process. Meaning; be kind with the not-so-fun stuff. I’m not going to get everything right. I’m not always going to feel motivated. I’m not always go to take the right action steps to get where I want to go… AND THAT’S OKAY!! Its ok to be going through shit. We all have different seasons in our lives, some are easier and some are harder. That’s life. But being kind to yourself in the process is crucial. I’ve learned this new phrase “ AND THAT’S OKAY”…because it is ok… no matter what you’re going through or what you’re feeling… it IS okay. Its okay to feel some type of way (positive OR Negative) about you, your life and your situation. I’ve learned a lot through my own personal journey & my client’s journies about self love and self acceptance… Something I’m going to do a post AND podcast on very very soon! SELF LOVE IS EVERYTHING… if you haven’t started this internal self work then you will love the stuff I have coming 😍🌸Read More »
  • Limiting Beliefs Can Hide Anywhere

    Limiting Beliefs Can Hide Anywhere

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    ASHLEY STAHL FUCKED ME UP THIS WEEKEND… I have done a lot of self love work in the last 365 days. But I didn’t expect to uncover a new area where I lacked self love and THIS IS WHERE ASHLEY STAHL FUCKED ME UP!!! I thought I had uncovered all of the areas of myself that lacked self love. Boy was I wrong! Ashley Stahl helped me uncover the 3rd place (after relationships & friendships) in my life in which I have NOT put myself first and that is my business… MY BUSINESS… I know liv WTF?! HOW??? You literally work for yourself…how did you not put yourself first? Well let me tell you… The self-sacrificial love I learned in my upbringing and my deep desire to help and support others has even interfered with me growing my business and scaling it to the level I know I can take it to!! How did this happen? Well like I said earlier I have always prided myself on my ability to be there for others… even at the detriment of myself. (not healthy, I know I know) Anyways, I did this in my business too. I didn’t go balls to the walls in my business and my pursuit of public speaking because I was worried that that, level of dedication to myself would take away from the love and support I would be able to give to my friends and family… It’s pretty irrational but it’s my truth. For a while I couldn’t pinpoint what exactly was holding me back. But I finally found it! Limiting beliefs are a tricky thing. They hold you back and make you believe in this false reality where you make up stupid excuses for not doing the things you know you’re supposed to! These types …Read More »
  • You Don’t Love Yourself And Thats The Real Problem

    You Don’t Love Yourself And Thats The Real Problem

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    The Struggle With Self Love & Putting Yourself 1st This weekend I realized the real reason I haven’t gone balls to the walls in my business and public speaking dreams.. THE TRUTH IS I DON’T KNOW HOW TO PUT MYSELF 1ST! My mom taught me how to love.. But maybe she taught me to love too much ?? Growing up, I learned a self-sacrificial type of love. My mom constantly sacrificed her health, well being and happiness to raise her kids. She claimed it was her “putting her children first”. I’m smiling typing this cause she really was the best. I’m so grateful to have had her as my mom for 19 long years!!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀My mom was one tough bitch & unfortunately she didn’t let anyone help her. If you guys know me you know the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀I’M THE SAME DAMN HUMAN! 🍎🌳 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀But I refuse to make the same mistakes..I’m learning each and every day!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀Slowly but surely letting more people in. Being open. Being vulnerable. Sharing more about my struggles in hopes to connect with even more people.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀Growing up with a self sacrificing love as my only real model of love taught me to worry about other people and their feelings more than I worried about my own.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀I constantly put other people before myself.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀Why?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀Because I grew up thinking that, that was the way you showed others love. By being there for them to love and support them WHENEVER they needed it. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀To be honest it was actually glorified in my upbringing so in my young adult life I really prided myself on my abilities to love others even when I felt alone, tire, helpless and depressed. It’s a dangerous place to be…Im sure a few of you can relate! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀❌Growing up I was …Read More »
  • We All Struggle With This…

    We All Struggle With This…

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    Ok so I haven’t been totally honest…⁣⁣⁣⁣Im struggling too. ⁣⁣⁣⁣I really do pride myself in being a strong and independent woman who has their shit together and although that is typically true, sometimes it’s not. I know I am positive and upbeat most of the time but that doesnt mean I dont go through shit too. I also deal with self doubt and limiting beliefs just like anyone else. I have fears (quite a few) and I have shortcomings just like everyone on the planet! (unless your @beyonce , she’s perfect) Recently I’ve learned that…⁣⁣⁣⁣Im hesitant to go ALL IN on business and sales because…⁣⁣⁣⁣⬇️I don’t like being a beginner ⁣⁣⁣⁣⬇️And I don’t like being a beginner because…⁣⁣I don’t like being bad at things ⁣⁣⁣⁣⬇️And I don’t like being bad at things because…⁣⁣I don’t like people seeing me be bad at things⁣⁣⁣⁣WHY???⁣⁣⁣⁣BECAUSE I FUCKING CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE!!! ⁣⁣Damn that feels good to get off my chest. Truth is, we all care…at least on some level, as to what people think of us and how we are perceived. The sooner we can be honest about this limiting belief, the sooner we can squash it and move the fuck on lol⁣⁣⁣⁣✨What my new truth? The REAL truth.⁣ ✨⁣⁣⁣I can accomplish anything I put my mind and heart to. I have persevered through so much and I can truly achieve anything. People that doubt me and my abilities are only going to be wrong in the long run (as @garyveewould say I’m playing the long game) It will take hard work and it will be a challenge but I LOVE a good challenge 😏 I truly thrive under pressure and tbh I love being an underdog 🙌🏽⁣⁣⁣⁣This whole post was inspired by the amazing @amandabucci She is so real and honest and I …Read More »
  • January Check In

    January Check In

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    Some goals for this month…⁣⁣⁣Be more intentional. With my actions. With my energy. With the things I say and do. Be more intentional and aware of the things that serve me, excite me & set my soul on fire.⁣⁣⁣Do more. More boxing. More adventures. More hikes. More dancing. More friendship. More laughs. More rest. ⁣⁣⁣⁣Stop holding myself back. Perfection is an illusion. Do things. Fail. Try again. It won’t be pretty at the beginning but if you never start you’ll never get where you want to go. Take messy action. Fuck fear and hesitation.⁣⁣⁣Stop worrying about options that are irrelevant to you and your happiness. If not now, when? ⁣⁣⁣On that note… the podcast is coming out soon and it’s going to be straight 🔥🔥🔥 ⁣⁣⁣What’s does the month of January look like for you?!Read More »
  • 6 Things You Need To Be Reminded Of

    6 Things You Need To Be Reminded Of

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    It’s foolish to think that there are people out there who have it “easier” than you. I used to think this way! And tbh it did nothing for me. There are always going to be people who have it easier AND people who have it worse than you. With that being said I think it’s so important to mention that EVERYONE has shit, meaning everyone is either currently going through something or maybe just getting over something! You’re not human if you haven’t experienced some kind of challenge and adversity. Trust me when I say you’re not alone. Most people have felt sadness, abandonment, disrespect, dishonesty, loneliness, fear and any of the other negative emotions that make you feel like you’re alone and all fucked up by yourself. Everyone has struggled with something. We have all had low times and high times. A few things that have been heavy on my heart… 1️⃣Let this be a soft reminder that nothing lasts forever. If you find yourself in a low season know that seasons change and you can look forward to some improvement in the coming months. 2️⃣Be kind to people. You genuinely have no idea what they’re going through and sometimes the smallest act of kindness can have the biggest impact on someone else. 3️⃣Be grateful for what you have. All the good and the bad has led you to this exact moment. You weren’t who you were a year ago or who you were 5 years ago. We’re constantly growing and changing. Be grateful and open to any and all changes, they will only make you better with time! 4️⃣ Communicate more. There is always people in you’re life who love you and want to be there for you. Talk to them about what you’re struggling with. You don’t …Read More »
  • If You’re Waiting For “The Right Time” Read This

    If You’re Waiting For “The Right Time” Read This

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    If you’re waiting for the “right time” to do that thing you really want to do. It’s now. Stop waiting for things to align or for the time to be right. The truth is most of us will go through life WANTING to travel or start a business or have an amazing passion-filled relationship but we’re too scared (fear of the unknown) to make the leap. I’m here to tell you that if you choose to live in fear and hesitation your whole life you’re not going to get what you truly want in life. Listen to your instincts, we all have them. Instead of going and back and forth with the possibilities and the pros and cons. Just make a decision. And stick to it! You want to backpack Europe? DO IT! You want to start a side hustle? DO IT! You want to leave the relationship that’s not supportive and doesn’t set your soul on fire… please DO IT! Life’s too short to not live a life you’re absolutely obsessed with 💛 It’s a lot easier to regret the things you did instead of regretting the things you didn’t do. Life is short and sometimes opportunities only come once in a lifetime. Take them! And take full advantage of them!! ✨ Life is meant to be lived ✨ QUIT PLAYING SMALL. DREAM BIG & LIVE ALL OUT!! What’s one thing you’re committing to do in 2019 that scares you?Read More »
  • Be You

    Be You

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    Throughout the week I talk to a lot of people via phone calls or zoom. Someone suggested that I share some of these topics so that other people can get value from them too! So here goes nothing 🤷🏼‍♀️ Was chatting with a business-building entrepreneur badass mom today and this was the struggle! Her issue: she’s working to expand her consulting/coaching business and she’s struggling with trying to do all of the things and “be” who she thinks she needs to be to get where she wants. The script: She kept saying over and over again “I don’t do this the best.” “I need to improve with XX” “I love the way so-and-so does XX” We talked a lot about how you can’t compare your beginning and middle stages to someone’s final project. That’s something they’ve been working towards their whole life. All you can focus on is you taking consistent action to get yourself to where YOU want to be! My view: BE YOUR FUCKING SELF! There’s nothing you have to do or portray to attract the right people/clients/jobs/love in to your life. You literally just have to be MORE you! Stop worrying about whatever the fuck anyone else is doing and focus on the things you enjoy doing. Focus on the things that you are genuinely great at! Don’t get confused by other people’s strengths… hint: yours are different for a good reason! Tap into your own strengths, that’s where all your power lies!! Comparing ourselves to others is not going to us anywhere. Ever. We all have a different past, present and future.  Embrace your own struggles.  Embrace your own wins.  Embrace your own ideas and thoughts.  Life’s too short to pretend to be anything but yourself! Goals for 2019: become unapologetically you.Read More »
  • Every Set Back Is An Opportunity To Step In The Right Direction

    Every Set Back Is An Opportunity To Step In The Right Direction

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    Sometimes you have to leave a life you love to experience a life you know you will love even more.From Lakeville MA ➡️ Keene NH ➡️ Los Angeles CA. Each move I make I get a little more clear on who I am and why I was put on this earth. My main reason? To help people! To help people be more themselves and find passion in the work they do! To help people work with the dark parts of themselves and make them light again. ✨ We’ve all been through some shit and if I’m being real, none of it is an excuse to not be the person you really want to be!! Slowly but surely I’m creating a life that I am absolutely obsessed with ❤️ I hope you do the same for yourself. I had this undeniable push to go to LA. I’m glad I listened to it. If you have something pulling you (a job, a relationship, a city, a new life) DO IT. 20 years from now you’ll want to be grateful you did it instead of being regretful you didn’t. Like I told everyone when I moved… I can always move back 🤷🏼‍♀️ Glad I made the jump. LA, you’re my favorite chapter yet 🙌🏽📖 Can’t wait to see what’s in store!!Read More »
  • This Reminded Me Of You…

    This Reminded Me Of You…

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    I recently got a text that said “I read this and it reminded me of you” The quote read … “Some of the kindest souls I know have lived in a world that was not so kind to them. Some of the best human beings I know have been through so much at the hands of others, and they still love deeply, they still care. Sometimes, it’s the people who have been hurt the most who refuse to harden this world, because they would never want to make another person feel the way they’ve felt. If that isn’t something to be in awe of, I don’t know what is.” In 23 years, I’ve lived a lot of life. I’ve learned that how you treat people and how you make them feel is what really matters. There’s no reason to be bitter or get harsh with the world because you’ve experienced some challenges, setbacks or straight up some shit you just didn’t deserve. . Take it. Grow from it. You were made to be a better YOU because of it ✨ Life ain’t easy but it’s ALWAYS worth it. It’s not what happens it’s how you deal with it 💕 What’s one thing you’ve grown from in the last year? I’d love to hear your thoughts 😊Read More »
  • Being Kind To Self

    Being Kind To Self

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    Until I finally worked with a coach I didn’t realize that I wasn’t being kind to myself. Always being busy and grinding is great and it definitely has a time and place (I mean that’s really the only way you make money and progress in life) but I didn’t realize that I was neglecting down time and things that bring me blissful enjoyment! Like most people I’ve been through some tough and challenging situations! Wether they are family problems, relationship problems or personal problems we’ve all experienced them. For me I’ve always just put on a smile and covered things up with my positive attitude. I’ve always been the “strong” one and tbh Ive loved it for a really long time. I love that people can count on me through thick and thin and I’m always here for people regardless of what’s going on in my own life. While this is good and one of my favorite traits I’ve also realized that true strength comes from letting people in and ALLOWING PEOPLE TO HELP YOU! I’ve realized that I CAN do it all by myself but it’s much more fun to do it with friends 😊 Today was a day to reflect and feel and take off from work and responsibilities. Sometimes we need a reset, this is what mine looks like. ✨Read More »
  • YOURE WELCOME, Healthy Coffee Shake Recipe

    YOURE WELCOME, Healthy Coffee Shake Recipe

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    Super-Bulletproof Coffee Protein Shake This coffee shake is actually the greatest thing I’ve ever created! I hate to be so dramatic but it is seriously delicious and it’s packed with a ton of nutrient rich foods! Im sure youve heard of Bulletproof Coffee.. This recipe is kind of a fun twist off of that same concept. If you have not heard bulletproof coffee (it is an actual brand as well) but it’s also a coffee recipe where you blend together the following: 1. Organic Coffee 2. 1 TBS Grass Fed Butter 3. 1 TBS MCT Oil or you can use Bulletproof’s brand, Brain Octane Oil This is seriously a great way to have your coffee. I would argue it’s one of the best ways! I personally tend to be slightly sensitive to coffee…as most people are. When you’ve relied on coffee, completely cut coffee out and then found balance between the two it’s easy to realise that coffee does have some long term effects. Often times too much coffee can be problematic. Blame Society, Im serious! We live in a fast paced society where being busy and stressed is the new norm. I came up with this recipe to still have that yummy coffee flavor but without all the added caffeine. If you look coffee today vs coffee in the 70s it’s easy to see that there is a HUGE size difference and because of that there’s a also a big difference in the amount of caffeine we are consuming on a daily and weekly basis. A venti starbucks coffee has around 400mg of caffeine… what the fuck?! Thats a lot especially considering a traditional cup of coffee contains only 95 mg of caffeine. If you had one coffee a day 5 days a week back in the 70s you …Read More »
  • Protein-Packed HEALTHY Raspberry Cookies

    Protein-Packed HEALTHY Raspberry Cookies

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    Happy Monday!! I hope you all had an amazing weekend! Today I wanted to share the perfect protein-packed healthy COOKIE. Yes there are healthy cookies out there. Not only are they delicious but they are also EXTREMELY good for you…like I mean jam-packed with healthy, yummy goodness! These are perfect for on the go when your needing a quick dose of protein. I either have one for a sweet treat at night or I have a few to serve as a meal replacement if i’m running low on time (or if i’m straight up just being lazy). Feel free to add anything extra to these cookies. When I cook I treat the kitchen like a science project meaning I randomly mix things together that I think will ultimately taste good. Sometimes it doesn’t go great but most of the time it’s a hit. This recipe is definitely a hit! As You Probably Know… I don’t count calories and I don’t adhere to a super strict diet. I make whole food from quality sources that I genuinely enjoy eating. I have cheat meals every so often but when you genuinely love the foods you’re eating it’s not that hard to stay on track. Over the years I have drastically changed my eating habits. If you want more on what I used to eat and how I made such drastic health changes, let me know in the comments below and I’ll be sure to write a blog on just that! The Healthy Superfood-ish Ingredient List 1. I added a Vanilla Bone Broth, by Ancient Nutrition, to make the base for these cookies. Typically, I don’t like bone broth powder on its own but baking it in treats is a whole different story. When you bake with the bone broth powder it you …Read More »
  • Cauliflower Pizza – Still Cauliflower, But A Good Substitute

    Cauliflower Pizza – Still Cauliflower, But A Good Substitute

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    80/20 Rule I’m a big advocate for the 80/20 rule and living a healthy lifestyle that allows for some sweet and savory treats. My personal favorite cheat meal/snack is a chocolate chip cookie dough peanut butter blizzard from Dairy Queen. That is completely irrelevant but I know some people will relate on that one lol Anyways, things like pizza and pasta are things I don’t typically eat on a regular or even weekly basis. When I do eat them I like to create paleo based alternatives. For example: cauliflower pizza. LET’S BE REAL LET’S BE REAL cauliflower is NO substitute for the real thing. If you’re craving pizza EAT SOME DAMN PIZZA! BUT if you’re looking for a healthy and creative alternative try a cauliflower based pizza. The Recipe Is Found Below: Make Healthy Living EASY As you probably know I don’t eat much grains at all. My body runs way smoother energetically and efficiently on healthy fats and clean sources of protein & of course TONS of veggies! This is another example of how I hack healthy living with fun and good-for-you foods! More Recipes… I’m thinking of creating a cauliflower/almond flour pizza alternative to see if that comes out even BETTER! → I’m thinking, less crumbly and more crispy → Who would be interested in something like that?? Let me know in the comments!Read More »
  • Fulfillment, Without It You’re Empty

    Fulfillment, Without It You’re Empty

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    What Is Fulfillment When you’re consistently making progress and moving forward in your career, relationships, mission and own personal development you are on the path of fulfillment. Fulfillment is that feeling of achieving true happiness in all areas of your life.   Why This Matters   Tony Robbins teaches about the 6 core needs that every human being shares. They are broken up into personality needs and spirit needs. The 2 spiritual needs are made up of growth and contribution both of which play a fundamental role in an individual’s sense of fulfillment. We must feel as though we are consistently growing and also giving back to other to feel a sense of fulfillment within ourselves.   Our Instinctual Need To Grow And Give For centuries we have grown and improved and passed on the torch to show other the ropes. It’s an instinctual nature for us to guide and help others who are not yet where we are. It’s also crucial for us to continuously get better and improve. These two spiritual needs are what fuels happy and successful relationships. The more experiences we share with others the more fulfilled we become.   What Happens When You Are Not Fulfilled   Not being fulfilled leaves a feeling of emptiness and incompleteness. This can occur in any sector of your life and it can drastically affect all of the other areas. It’s similar to a domino effect when one goes down so do all the rest.   Worst Case Scenario Think about the recent awful events involving Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain. Both of them recently took their lives at the young ages of 51 and 61. It is awful and heartbreaking to see but it shows that things can be so externally perfect yet internally it can be chaos, …Read More »
  • Why You Need To Start Eating Sauerkraut

    Why You Need To Start Eating Sauerkraut

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    I Eat Sauerkraut (Almost) Every Day… I post a lot on my instagram story about sauerkraut. I eat this before anything else usually early in the morning! I get a plethora of responses all the way from “Ew I don’t know how you do that” to “What is this and why is it beneficial for your health?” What Does It Taste Like If you can handle apple cider vinegar then you can surely handle sauerkraut! It’s not necessarily the most desirable taste. Day 1 is the hardest but I can assure you that it gets so much easier after that. The first time I tried sauerkraut I didn’t love it but I also didn’t hate it. For whatever reason the second day I was totally fine with it and it didn’t bother me in the slightest. Now I have it almost everyday right when I wake up. For me, I feel great knowing that I am immediately supporting my gut health by providing a nutrient rich, natural probiotic. Benefits Of Fermented Foods Sauerkraut is a fermented foods and fermented foods help to feed the good bacteria in our gut. They are a nutrient rich probiotic that helps balance the gut flora, lower inflammation and modulate the immune system. Personally, I feel less bloated and experience better digestion when I incorporate fermented foods into my diet! Who Can Fermented Foods Help Fermented foods are extremely beneficial for people with autoimmune disorders. It is also extremely helpful for people with other health conditions like alzheimer’s, diabetes, depression, anxiety, cancer and so much more!! Supporting a healthy gut microbiome will do more for your health in 2018 than any fad diet or workout regimen. “Liv can’t you just take a probiotic?” Short answer: NO A lot of probiotics on the shelves are shit. …Read More »
  • You Practice “Self Love” But You Are Probably Treating Yourself Like S*!^

    You Practice “Self Love” But You Are Probably Treating Yourself Like S*!^

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    When was the last time you congratulated yourself? When was the last time you told yourself how proud you were? When was the last time you say hey *insert name here* you rock and you’re a damn good person.” Probably never… That’s the sad part. And it’s also what’s wrong with so many of us: We so freely give out love to the amazing people around us and so quickly and instinctually deny ourselves from that same exact love. Self love isn’t necessarily an act of self love like its so oftenly portrayed. Self love is the treatment of yourself, by yourself, to yourself. My first ever definition and idea of self love was the stereotypical self love action which included things that you do to show you love yourself. Things like getting my nails done or getting a massage or taking your stereotypical bath with bubbles or candles. Boy, was I way off! As I grew and dove into personal development I realised I didn’t love myself at all. This was very controversial for me because I was always an extremely confident person and I very much knew my value. Even with all of that confidence I didn’t really love myself. A huge realisation for me came from analyzing how I loved other people and how I loved myself. When it came to friends and family I was endlessly supportive and encouraging. I consistently told them how much they meant to me and how wonderful I truly thought they were. In a sense I validated that they were perfect just the way they were. This is something I never did for myself… When I would fall short on a due date or not complete my unrealistic list of to-dos I would scold myself (in my head of course – …Read More »
  • Self Love Sundays: Why You NEED To Do This

    Self Love Sundays: Why You NEED To Do This

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    It is so incredibly important to do things that fuel your soul. Things that energize you and recharge you. Things that push you to grow and develop. Things that make you think and reflect. Things that push you to be more present in the current moment. Things that make you feel more alive. Today was all of that combined. I listened to a bunch of podcasts, did a mindfulness meditation, ran, stretched, journaled and spent some time in nature (the beach). It forces me to reflect and plan but also to just “be”. It made me be more present and in tune with my body and mind. My self love sunday may look completely different than your self love sunday. We are all different and because of that different things will bring us happiness and energize us. Find your “things” and actively practice them. Show yourself the love you deserve by fueling your soul with these things. Make it an effort to care for yourself the way you care for others. ♦ What centers you? ♦ What calms you? ♦ What excites you? ♦ What makes you feel ‘at home’? ♦ What challenges you? ♦ What energizes you? ♦ What expands your mind? ♦ What do you love doing? How often do you do these things? What is one simple little thing that you can do today to show yourself a random act of kindness? I have this idea that life is pretty simple. What do you want more of? And what do you want less of? Experiences. Feelings. Etc Work more towards the things you want out of life and start to cut out the people, situations and tasks that bring you further away from your true happiness. Life is all about continuously growing. If you’re not growing you’re …Read More »
  • It’s Not What Happens It’s How Your Deal With It

    It’s Not What Happens It’s How Your Deal With It

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    Unexpected challenges, unfair struggles, trials and tribulations, they will come and they will pass. They will shake up your world and sometimes even flip it upside down. It’s not always fair and it’s usually not expected. There will be a million times in your life where you find yourself facing a new and unwanted challenge. The good news is that these tough times never last. The bad news is that these incidents never really go away. We will always have new challenges and struggles in our lives so instead of dreading them and allowing them to deplete your energy. Try changing your mindset towards them. My amazing mother game me the advice of “it’s not what happens it’s how you deal with it”. It has become my own personal motto for 20+ years now. An improved attitude, perspective, positivity and lack of “playing the victim” will do wonders for you and any unwanted situation you may find yourself in.  …To this day its some of the best advice I’ve ever gotten. It means that the issue or challenge or tough time you are currently facing is simply just an issue. We will have a million issues over the duration of our lives. The issues will come and go and they are much less significant in comparison to the way we choose to deal with them. When a less than desirable situation presents itself do you sit there and ask yourself “Why me? What did I do to deserve this?” If so, you may benefit from this change in perspective. Your attitude and your approach to the problem says more about you, your character, and in turn, the outcome than anything else. Approaching any situation with a positive and powerful attitude can drastically change not only the outcome of the scenario …Read More »
  • The Best And Really Only Way To Get Over Something Is To Find A New Source Of Happiness

    The Best And Really Only Way To Get Over Something Is To Find A New Source Of Happiness

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    Sometimes when we face challenges we think it is absolutely the most devastating thing that you could possibly be going through. It seems to completely take over your thoughts and its extremely draining to your mood. In the pain and challenges I’ve endured I’ve learned a few things. One of the most important things I’ve learned was that the best and really only way to get over something is to find a new source of happiness. Whether it’s a relationship, a death, a job, or anything else. The best way to get over it is to switch your focus to a new form of happiness. If you lost your job maybe take some extra time to enjoy and appreciate your friends and family. If you’ve recently gone through a break up or the lost of a loved one maybe try reconnecting with your friends or diving into a new project at your job. It sounds simple but it really works. You have endless streams of happiness in your life and when one fades out it’s time to switch focus and fuel a new source of happiness.Read More »
  • What I’ve Learned From A Lifetime Of Pain

    What I’ve Learned From A Lifetime Of Pain

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    One of my very best friends is currently going through a tough heartbreak right now and it made me reflect on some influential and challenging times in my own life. What have I learned from my trials and tribulations? What has remained true through every single challenge, heartbreak and shitty experience?   What I’ve Learned From A Lifetime Of Pain… In all my years of pain and suffering I’ve realistically only learned a few things. Three to be exact! These three pillars seem to be applicable to any person and situation possible so if you’re going through a tough time, listen up! 1. Everything Happens For A Reason 2. The Best And Really Only Way To Get Over Something Is To Find A New Source Of Happiness 3. It’s Not What Happens It’s How Your Deal With It   Why You’re Struggling Your struggles are setting you up for a new found greatness. They’re creating a better more improved you. Don’t agree? Think of it like this: the comparison between the original Iphone vs the Iphone X. They are completely different and over the years the Iphone has been reinvented. There were some challenges they had to overcome to create a better more efficient Iphone. Similarly, there’s a reason you’re going through challenging times. There IS something better in your future and these challenges will shape you into a new and improved you!   The things that break you down are eventually the reasons you choose to rebuild yourself stronger, wiser, and more equipped than ever before to handle trials and tribulations. Your struggles make you who you are.   Whether it’s heartbreak, losing a job, a loved one passing away or anything else that could possible rip your heart into pieces you’re the one in control regardless of how …Read More »
  • Happy Mothers Day: A post from Instagram

    Happy Mothers Day: A post from Instagram

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    An important message and caption from my Mother’s Day post on Instagram: My friends & family are always so confused with my ability to go through holidays, birthdays and life evens with such ease after losing someone so influential and important in my life!! There’s so many big life moments that my moms already missed and although I wish she was here to share the experience I’m genuinely not sad about it and I guess that’s kind of opposite of what most people would expect. Birthdays and holidays don’t really get me worked up or upset because I have absolutely zero regret when it comes to my mom. I like to think that I “left it all out on the field” My brother and I were there for years and years helping and supporting a single mom who struggled with more diseases and health issues than you could count! She constantly worried if she was going to get sick and leave her two kids without any parents. She always wondered if we were going to be ok without her so growing up we had a lot of meaningful life conversations. We talked about the important shit – which included how grateful, lucky and appreciative we were to have each other and to be raised by such an amazing woman ❤ We were there through the good times but most importantly through the bad times! Often times we forget that the people we surround ourselves with and the relationships we create are the MOST important thing about this beautiful life we live! There’s not a single thing I wish I said or something more I wish I had done. I truly left it all out on the field. I was there for the 11pm panic attacks and the 6am doctor appointments …Read More »
  • Who Is Larry? And what does he have to do with the stories you tell yourself?!

    Who Is Larry? And what does he have to do with the stories you tell yourself?!

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    Today I met a very kind man named Larry. You’re probably wondering where the heck is this going Liv?? Today I want to talk a bit about my interaction with Larry and how that relays to the things you consistently tell yourself! It’s going to be a quick dive into the power of self talk. What do you tell yourself about your strengths, weaknesses, looks, personality and ability? Is there something you always say you’re not good at? What are the common themes you see with the way you treat yourself and the way you talk to yourself (aka your self talk)? This example is extremely simple but I’m sure you can all relate. Today I had a wonderful little conversation with a man named Larry who was parking near my building for the Red Sox game. He started asking if he was in anyone’s spot and if he would be ok and not getting towed where he was parking. After I assured him he would have no problems he started telling me about how he brings a handicapped man and his wife to the games a few times during the season. I thought to myself “wow that’s super sweet what a nice guy”. Anyways, when our quick convo ended he introduced himself and like every other introduction I shook his hand and immediately defaulted to telling him my name and that it was nice to meet him. BOOM. Just like that I totally forgot his name. I couldn’t remember it for the life of me. I grabbed my bag and got out of my car and began walking to my apartment thinking “wow Liv you’re so bad at remembering names” Immediately I snapped out of it. This is the same old story I always tell myself. I always say …Read More »
  • Self Love IS Self Discipline: Gym Edition

    Self Love IS Self Discipline: Gym Edition

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    Why I go..   The gym is something I’ve always enjoyed doing but never quite stuck to it long enough to see results. In the last 6 months I’ve seen a whole new level discipline from myself that I never in a million years would have imagined. Although you may think it was a new found dedication, motivation or determination, fortunately, it had nothing to do with any of those 3 things. It had to do with self love which I equate with self discipline.   Within the last half of a year I’ve really became committed to self love in all forms. I will discuss this further in future blog posts. For me in my life, self love looks like doing extra work and sacrificing fun on the weekends to play a much longer game. Its self discipline for a desirable and fulfilling future. Its purpose is to achieve an end goal. To achieve certain goals you need to make sacrifices somewhere. Until recently I didn’t quite understand the extremely powerful connection between self love and self discipline.   The single Youtube video that made this drastic and life shattering connection was actually by the actor Will Smith. He talked about how self discipline is truly self love and when you really love yourself and want the best for you and your future you behave differently. You act in a manner that supports and encourages the future you. If you’re even remotely lost, confused, or unconnected to self love, I highly recommend this short clip! Watch Here    Something I discussed with my good friend Morgan, a trainer over at the Equinox in Chestnut Hill is standards. It is very easy to tell a person’s diet and exercise standards because it is apparent in their physique. We discussed the …Read More »
  • How I Would Change The World

    How I Would Change The World

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    I was once asked the question: “If you could do anything to change the world, what would you do?” To be honest, I think I would change people’s outlooks on their own lives. I truly believe that we have the ability to make this life whatever we want it to be regardless of the hands we are dealt.Read More »