It’s not going to be easy
It’s not going to happen quick
But when it happens, it’s going to be worth it
Today I spoke at an event on success and how to truly achieve it. We discussed the nitty gritty details on how to achieve fulfillment in whatever you’re doing. We discussed the steps and tangible actions that will get you there. The three actionable items to achieving success are
- Having A Clear Goal
Having A Clear Goal
It is important that you are crystal clear on your goal and where you are headed. This requires some inner work and some focus. First, you have to figure out what it is that you truly deeply want then you have to get clear on the physical ask. What are you asking for? What are you working towards. This includes numbers, dates, and other tangible information. Focus is powerful. This is where focus is required for real success.
Self discipline requires self love. In order to make this dream a reality you have to do the work. And you have to do the work consistently. It won’t happen over night and it won’t happen if you’re not consistent. Goals and dreams require commitment. How committed are you to achieving and accomplishing your goal? Are you working at it every day? You should be. Focus + Consistency = Power
Alignment is the last piece of the puzzle and what really makes all of this work like a well oiled machine. You have to align yourself with what it is that you want. We create alignment by imaging, dreaming and even just thinking about what it is you’re working towards and how it will feel once you get there. The feeling is the key component here. It is important to play out these scenarios in the mind because the mind can’t distinguish an imaginary feeling from a real life feeling. That’s why we cry at sad movies and smile at happy endings.
Where I see most people dropping the ball is not answering the important questions based on the information above.
➖What is your goal? (Think numbers, tangible data)
➖When do you plan to achieve it? (Date)
➖What is the terminology you are using? (I want vs I AM)
➖Are you working towards this goal daily?
➖Are you feeling this future accomplishment daily?
Fill in the statement below with a goal:
I AM SO HAPPY AND GRATEFUL TO HAVE ACHIEVED ____________________
Listen to a clip of this talk on my instagram